alphamale Posted June 2, 2019 Posted June 2, 2019 When you make it clear to a woman you are interested in more than just friends, you will know very soon if she feels the same. That's why its always better to take control of the situation at the start and make your intentions clear, so you don't need to waste months not knowing where you stand. great advice FA 1
Iris The Butterfly Posted June 2, 2019 Posted June 2, 2019 (edited) I like Flame Aura's advice. Make it clear that it's a 'date', not a friendly hanging out. Women want men to take the initiative in that department. That means... picking her up, paying for her meal or entry to where you're going, holding hands, a kiss. It's great to be respectful, as you are, but there needs to be more of a romantic effort on your end. You have to make it clear you are interested in her as more than a friend like FA said I re-read a previous post. She said she likes you as a friend and didn't want you to have any 'higher' expectations. This means = I'm not interested in dating you. So next time, if you like someone try to take more initiative. My bf picked me up on our second date, in the car asked, "you like to hold hands?" and held my hand. He had pre-purchased tickets for the event we were going to, took me to dinner after, and at the end of the date kissed me goodbye. That's how you do it I really loved the way he took the initiative and that made my attraction for him skyrocket. Nothing wrong with being a shy guy and respectful, but you have to make it crystal clear it is a DATE and initiate respectful physical contact and flirtation. Edited June 2, 2019 by littlebridge 1
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