Tagalz Posted May 31, 2019 Posted May 31, 2019 (edited) Hey! a backstory to what I'm about to write The girl I'm talking about is a girl that I first met when I hosted new years eve party that went crazy. I managed to get her snapchat but we haven't had any contact since the start of the year. She usually sends "good morning" and "good night" snaps to me and she still does EXCEPT now she takes selfie of her self and sometimes she sends me a video of what she is doing. The last video was her in Sweden training for a basketball cup she be attending. So it's clear that she wants a streak with me, but is she really interested or does she just wants streak? A few days ago I asked her to meet me and I got rejected because she had exams she needed to practise to. I did not now if she was finish with all of them as the same with my friend. Because different schools have different days of exams. I haven't asked her if she's done with all of them. Also she didn't give me a time when she's free after exam, so the other question is: is she really interested? Edited May 31, 2019 by Tagalz
alphamale Posted May 31, 2019 Posted May 31, 2019 what's "streak" anyway, I think you are friendzoned...move on to the next female
crispytoast Posted May 31, 2019 Posted May 31, 2019 (edited) The easy way to figure this out is next time the two of you have an exchange, ask her what days she has free. If she dodges giving you a straight response, then you have your answer. Does she live near you? If she does and you met her at the start of the year, it's pretty unlikely that she is interested in you like that. It's been 6 months man. She might've been interested at a point, hence the snapchats, but that's a long time after meeting her to have never met up or tried to pursue a connection. Also, yes, what's a streak? Edited May 31, 2019 by crispytoast
emeraldgreen Posted May 31, 2019 Posted May 31, 2019 Seems more like you're one of her orbiters/fans rather than a dating prospect. Withdraw online attention and limit interactions to the real world and see if she picks up the slack. Get her hamster wheel running. For example, ignore all snaps but be 2x as friendly in person. If she really likes you, she'll wonder why you've doubled down on being a real person and stopped being her audience. 2
alphamale Posted May 31, 2019 Posted May 31, 2019 dude, if she really was into you you'd be banging her right now 1
Foxhall Posted May 31, 2019 Posted May 31, 2019 I believe it is an exchange of photos on snapchat between two people, lol I only know because our team did not know it at a quiz recently! anyway sounds positive this time mate, she's sending you work out pictures, definitely worth a play anyway, nothing to lose, exam story may be true this time! 1
The Outlaw Posted June 1, 2019 Posted June 1, 2019 No. If she were, she'd make more of an effort to be in contact with you more than when it's just convenient for her. 1
kendahke Posted June 1, 2019 Posted June 1, 2019 I don't even know what snapchat is It's a banal morass, but they've got some really funny filters. The chihuahua is epic.
kendahke Posted June 1, 2019 Posted June 1, 2019 (edited) Get her hamster wheel running. For example, ignore all snaps but be 2x as friendly in person. If she really likes you, she'll wonder why you've doubled down on being a real person and stopped being her audience. ^^^This. Right. Here. OP, you've got to be decisive. So it's clear that she wants a streak with me, but is she really interested or does she just wants streak? What's a "streak"? Why are you so confident she wants that with you? And are you opposed? If that's the case, then it's just a matter of if she's actually that interested. Edited June 1, 2019 by kendahke
Author Tagalz Posted June 1, 2019 Author Posted June 1, 2019 I don't even know what snapchat is It’s an app were you send photo’s to each other and you have the option to choose how long it lasts. Also you can edit, use filters and post on «your story» were your friends can see it all (: A social media plattform 1
Iris The Butterfly Posted June 1, 2019 Posted June 1, 2019 When I was online dating I had a lot of guys ask for my Instagram. They would message me on there and like all my pics but never have time to meet. They weren’t interested in anything more than collecting girls to have for attention or some weird ego trip. Next! 2
Author Tagalz Posted June 1, 2019 Author Posted June 1, 2019 The easy way to figure this out is next time the two of you have an exchange, ask her what days she has free. If she dodges giving you a straight response, then you have your answer. Does she live near you? If she does and you met her at the start of the year, it's pretty unlikely that she is interested in you like that. It's been 6 months man. She might've been interested at a point, hence the snapchats, but that's a long time after meeting her to have never met up or tried to pursue a connection. Also, yes, what's a streak? I fully agree. No she does not live near me tho and I don’t think I want know where she lives... u know that would be too stalkerish hahah Streak is when you sends a person photo back and forth everyday and then the fire emoji would pop up. That is streak (: I have about 500 streaks with my best friends so it means we have been sending photo’s since we added each other
Author Tagalz Posted June 1, 2019 Author Posted June 1, 2019 Get her hamster wheel running. For example, ignore all snaps but be 2x as friendly in person. If she really likes you, she'll wonder why you've doubled down on being a real person and stopped being her audience. Yeah but I need to meet up with her first. Give her date and time. I need confirmation from her first tho
Author Tagalz Posted June 1, 2019 Author Posted June 1, 2019 When I was online dating I had a lot of guys ask for my Instagram. They would message me on there and like all my pics but never have time to meet. They weren’t interested in anything more than collecting girls to have for attention or some weird ego trip. Next! Hahah! I fell ya! I do like pics of instagram models just for how sexy they are :cool:
kendahke Posted June 1, 2019 Posted June 1, 2019 I fully agree. No she does not live near me tho and I don’t think I want know where she lives... u know that would be too stalkerish hahah wise move. Streak is when you sends a person photo back and forth everyday and then the fire emoji would pop up. That is streak (: I have about 500 streaks with my best friends so it means we have been sending photo’s since we added each other Thanks for explaining! ...learn something new every day! 1
Author Tagalz Posted June 1, 2019 Author Posted June 1, 2019 anyway sounds positive this time mate, she's sending you work out pictures, definitely worth a play anyway, nothing to lose, Yeah also why I think she might be interested. Just gotta ask her when she’s free
Author Tagalz Posted June 1, 2019 Author Posted June 1, 2019 (edited) OP, you've got to be decisive. Why are you so confident she wants that with you? And are you opposed? If that's the case, then it's just a matter of if she's actually that interested. I’m so confident that she wants streak with me because she sends me good morning and good night snaps everyday. I could easily send her a photo of my white wall and the streak would still go up. All she has to do is open it. Basically if she don’t send good morning snaps to me and I send snaps to her then the streak would not go up. The same goes for me. If I send her a snap and she just opens it, then the streak would not go Aaand woolah! Now you also know how it works xP Edited June 1, 2019 by Tagalz 1
emeraldgreen Posted June 1, 2019 Posted June 1, 2019 But when you take snapchat out of the equation, you don't have squat. Social media interaction isn't real and doesn't count for dick in the real world. 2
alphamale Posted June 1, 2019 Posted June 1, 2019 When I was online dating I had a lot of guys ask for my Instagram. They would message me on there and like all my pics but never have time to meet. They weren’t interested in anything more than collecting girls to have for attention or some weird ego trip. Next! yes littlebridge many women complain of this...I think it's because these men are lying in their OLD profiles and afraid they will be called out if they meet a woman IRL 1
Flame Aura Posted June 1, 2019 Posted June 1, 2019 You asked her out, she said no. I think the answer to your question of whether she is interested or not is pretty clear. Also I would suggest to stop using social media as a measure of how interested someone is in you. Real life experience is much better than staring at a screen. 1
crispytoast Posted June 1, 2019 Posted June 1, 2019 (edited) OP I think we need to see those training pictures to give you a proper answer. Edited June 1, 2019 by crispytoast
Author Tagalz Posted June 1, 2019 Author Posted June 1, 2019 We had a exhange of photo’s and I asked when she’s coming home from that basketball cup. She said tuesday and I once again asked if she wants to go out on friday. And I can confirm that she’s not interested. She just opened my snap without replying to it. The same as rejecting me if it wasn’t through social media
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