How to make that important decision?

[choices59]

You love your bf and vice versa. He is very much in love with you but how come you feel that you're being taken advantage of sometimes in terms of money if you have a lot more than him (he's usually fairly generous but you've been paying for things that are really his responsibility like gifts)? Because of that you don't always trust him with money matters and due to that you are very hesitant to build a life with him.

 

He's hadn't been great with money and has limited funds but he has learned how to budget better.

 

Will these fears go away once you're living with him or not? If you break it off will you always regret it?

[FMW]

Living together will only intensify any issues you have, not make them go away. Money is at the top of issues that break couples up. He's not likely to change his ways, so if it's not ok with you now don't get further entangled.

[Gaeta]

How many times do you need to hear it for it to sink in.

 

 

 

The feeling doesn't go away because it's your personal alarm telling you something is not right.

 

 

 

No he will not change.

[chillii]

What's the big deal payin for a few gifts yet you say he's also really generous. You say, you love him , are you sure, seems odd for real love, maybe you just love him as a person not in love.

Because if you really do , maybe he can improve have you talked to him about it and tried. l did and know others that did too, some a complete about face one's a millionaire now started his own importing business another ones some sort of property tycoon these days.

 

lf l "really" loved someone l'd be trying to work it out with them myself.

Edited May 25, 2019 by chillii

[chillii]

Well , before doing anything rash anyway. loves a lot harder to get than money , doesn't grow on trees.