Is it wrong to ask someone you met online if they are in a relationship?

[Venn]

I added a woman on Facebook from a Facebook Dating App and she gave me 2 accounts both stated she has a Single status.

 

At one point there was a myday status where she was in bed with a guy. And I asked if she had a boyfriend. For some reason she got angry and posted on her myday:

 

Why do people ask me if I have a bf? Is it that questionable?

 

Did I do something wrong here?

[Orokotikki]

Just respond with obvious facts "well your profile says single but you posted pics in bed with a guy, and before this exchange I had thought you were a little cute."

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

What the heck is myday?

[Venn]

I dont know man.. I had the same encounter with another girl in the past. On that first girl she also placed small hints that she might be in a relationship and then when asked she gets annoyed or angry about it.. or maybe a lot of people asked her about it and she got tired.. idk

[The Outlaw]

No. But it seems anyone can be triggered over the most innocent question.

[Venn]

No. But it seems anyone can be triggered over the most innocent question.

 

Well if they are triggered over it, are they the ones in the wrong for being triggered over an innocent question?

[todreaminblue]

there's nothing wrong with asking that...maybe she was having a bad day..maybe there were more than one person asking her that day...and normally when a guy asks do you have a bf it is because he is interested but in my opinion being respectful ...finding out before continuing with further communication..........deb

[kendahke]

if you added her because she expressed an interest in dating you and she's posting status updates about being in bed with some man, then I think it's smart to ask her if he's her boyfriend because if she's in a relationship, even if she doesn't respect it, that doesn't mean you have to follow suit.

 

Maybe she felt indicted by the question because she's up to no good.

 

The guilty always make the most noise.

Edited May 26, 2019 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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[kendahke]

Just respond with obvious facts "well your profile says single but you posted pics in bed with a guy, and before this exchange I had thought you were a little cute."

 

 

heh heh heh <--sinister laugh

[preraph]

She's mad because she's too disorganized to keep her online face on straight and you busted her. Nothing wrong with asking about that at all.

[Venn]

Well looking based on how she dresses and how she posts naughty stuff on her feed I kinda think she might be in a private open relationship where only a few people know about the open relationship and they can go date with someone else. I mean why would she try using dating apps when she is in a relationship? Lol

Edited May 25, 2019 by Venn

[kendahke]

Well looking based on how she dresses and how she posts naughty stuff on her feed I kinda think she might be in a private open relationship where only a few people know about the open relationship and they can go date with someone else. I mean why would she try using dating apps when she is in a relationship? Lol

 

 

You know what? There are so many OLD profiles of couples looking for a 3rd person that I had to put it in my profile in capital letters at the top of my profile for them to miss with with that sloppiness.

[smackie9]

Maybe it's an old BF. It's not uncommon for people to keep old relationship photos on their social media.

[olivetree]

There's nothing wrong with asking that question.

 

She sounds like a drama queen / likes attention since she basically responded to your question to her whole friends list.

[Grey40]

what in the hell is facebook dating app? and what is myday? Never heard of it. Why not just stick to the commonplace apps instead of these weird ones?

 

In general though, if you're that concerned about it, I'd just move on to the next. You can easily meet someone else who you won't have to question or worry about that stuff.