Niceguy22 Posted May 24, 2019 Posted May 24, 2019 Hi, I contacted this foreign guy working in my city on a dating site the day before yesterday --both males here. We swapped pics, and liked what we saw. In the early afternoon he asked me where I was. Told him at work until 16:30..By 6 pm or so, he said he wasn't free to meet in the evening. A bit later I replied saying OK and asking him to let me know in advance if he was still interested to meet up.. Yesterday, by noon, I sent him a message asking if he had time to get together. He hasn't replied yet.. Did he lose interest because I was maybe a bit pushy? Or, given that his online status was "sex", he is someone who wants to gets laid with everyone at the same time.
Redhead14 Posted May 24, 2019 Posted May 24, 2019 Seriously. Stop right now. There is no way in the world to even make a guess as to why he didn't answer. It doesn't matter. Find another guy to try to connect with. And if his status says "sex", he's just a guy who just wants sex and nothing more. So, unless you are OK with indiscriminate sex and not seeking a relationship, you should block or delete, whatever, this one anyway.
kendahke Posted May 24, 2019 Posted May 24, 2019 Where were you pushy? You asked the guy if he was available to meet. How is that pushy? Date others and don't focus just on this one. He'll make it plain if he's interested or not. 1
Author Niceguy22 Posted May 24, 2019 Author Posted May 24, 2019 Seriously. Stop right now. There is no way in the world to even make a guess as to why he didn't answer. It doesn't matter. Find another guy to try to connect with. And if his status says "sex", he's just a guy who just wants sex and nothing more. So, unless you are OK with indiscriminate sex and not seeking a relationship, you should block or delete, whatever, this one anyway. I was ok even with sex.. (On his profile, in fact, I read he was open to more, too.)
Author Niceguy22 Posted May 24, 2019 Author Posted May 24, 2019 Where were you pushy? You asked the guy if he was available to meet. How is that pushy? Date others and don't focus just on this one. He'll make it plain if he's interested or not. You're right, but I was just wondering.. (When we swapped he said he found me really charming, but somehow lost interest later.)
d0nnivain Posted May 24, 2019 Posted May 24, 2019 Did he lose interest because I was maybe a bit pushy? Or, given that his online status was "sex", he is someone who wants to gets laid with everyone at the same time. You weren't pushy. He was looking to get laid. You are seeking romance. He's not interested in seeing you in general. He wanted somebody who was DTF right then & there, nothing more. You two are not compatible. Move along.
preraph Posted May 24, 2019 Posted May 24, 2019 I'll just go one step further than other posters and say the guy is only interested in convenient ready-to-go-now sex and nothing that resembles a date or planned event. 1
The Outlaw Posted May 24, 2019 Posted May 24, 2019 I don't see how you were pushy, but if he were really in meeting up, he'd make time for you. If you still haven't heard from him by now, just move on.
kendahke Posted May 25, 2019 Posted May 25, 2019 You're right, but I was just wondering.. (When we swapped he said he found me really charming, but somehow lost interest later.) He just might be naturally flakey... I think there's a cream for that 1
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