Meeting ex 2 weeks after no contact. This is what I want to say to get her back.

[njb32519]

“Just ate ribs my family made... I miss your dad’s ribs so much right now, I think I’m having withdraws ”

 

Her dad made really good ribs and I think it’s funny enough to get her into a conversation where she feels comfortable.

 

Or just get to the point...

 

“Wanted to see if you were willing to meet up this week after work. I want to let you know that I have realized a lot of things that I want to make right and stuff we should talk about...Like am I gonna see Esa on weekends and you see Hobbes on weekdays or??”

 

Esa is her cat and Hobbes is mine. Kind of joke about them being our children after a divorce.

[preraph]

Just refreshed my memory on your other thread. You've been broken up more than two weeks now, not one week. She broke up with you. She went on a trip and said she'd text you when she got back, right? Why did she say she was going to do that, to agree to talk to you about the breakup? Anyway, the ball is in her court, not yours.

Edited May 28, 2019 by preraph

[alphamale]

I would send neither

[Blanco]

Both are transparent about how needy you are right now. If she said she'd get a hold of you when she gets back, then that's when you talk. If you haven't heard from her, take that as a good indication of where you stand with her right now.

[major_merrick]

Send neither. Get laid with someone else in the meantime. Never, ever seem needy when you're a guy.

[d0nnivain]

It doesn't matter which one you send. You could send both. You could send neither. The result will be the same: she is not going to respond.

 

I'm sorry to be so harsh but seriously, she LIED to you when she said she'd get in touch. She only said that because she wanted to stop talking to you.

[ExpatInItaly]

OP, the content of your text doesn't make a lick of difference.

 

If she isn't the one contacting you, she doesn't want to talk.

[preraph]

Try to always look at exactly what is happening and accept that as the gospel truth. It is what it is. And if she wanted to be talking, she would be. If she wants to be in the future, she will. If not, it is what it is: She doesn't want to talk.