jkf1523 Posted May 21, 2019 Posted May 21, 2019 He ended with me via message after one year seeing each other. I want a proper closure but he is not meeting me. He told me I was cool but hope to stay as close friend. He added me to one social media after that. But he is not doing anything else. One month after ended. I text him to tell him I still thinking of him. Usually if he doesnt know how to respond to my text, he will not respond at all when we were together. However, yesterday after my message telling him I still thinking of him and hope when he know someone still thinking of him sometime somewhere, he would be happy and not stress with my message. He responded but a blank message. I do not know what does that mean.... Anyone has any advise? Thank you. Regards Joan
SophieG Posted May 21, 2019 Posted May 21, 2019 Besides the meaning of the text, my question is... why do you keep texting him? He end things with you, via text, without the possibility of explaining himself. You should just move on and forget about him. You might think of him, be he doesn’t need to know it 1
stillafool Posted May 21, 2019 Posted May 21, 2019 It means "he's not interested but doesn't know what to say to you." Don't text him again, it's over. 1
Author jkf1523 Posted May 21, 2019 Author Posted May 21, 2019 No, I did not keep message me. I only write this message after one month. My only message after he ended it.
Lotsgoingon Posted May 21, 2019 Posted May 21, 2019 It was an accident most likely ... he typed something ... thought about it ... deleted what he wrote ... or accidentally deleted what he wrong. "Hey, the message you sent to me was blank." Sorta like one of those buttcalls I got the other day from a buddy ... he clearly hadn't called me ... there was nothing but background static on the line ... but he had leaned on or touched his phone in such a way that I got a call. 1
Author jkf1523 Posted May 21, 2019 Author Posted May 21, 2019 It was an accident most likely ... he typed something ... thought about it ... deleted what he wrote ... or accidentally deleted what he wrong. "Hey, the message you sent to me was blank." Sorta like one of those buttcalls I got the other day from a buddy ... he clearly hadn't called me ... there was nothing but background static on the line ... but he had leaned on or touched his phone in such a way that I got a call. I think you maybe right cause when we were together, if he did not know how to respond or doesnt like my message, he will not respond at all. You think it's ok i respond with "Hey the message you send to me was blank" even though one month ago, he did said let's end this? I did wonder should I wait for two days and if no respond I should move on? but my personality, i will keep wondering.... I dont know to make him fed up with me but I cant read his mind. Thanks for responding to me.
elaine567 Posted May 21, 2019 Posted May 21, 2019 There is nothing to wonder about. He dumped you. He saw no future, he wanted to date other people, he no longer has an interest in you... If he regrets his decision, he will text/email/call you/show up at your house/ your place of work, but he hasn't, so move on for your own sake. The blank message may be a mistake or it could be deliberate, "I have nothing to say to you, leave me alone". Dumpers can get very annoyed with dumpees who do not get the message. 2
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