TAKE CAUTION with any LD Relationship or LD Friendship!

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TAKE CAUTION! This is what happened to my friend!

 

My friend found out that her crushes dating friend was telling the truth. The relationship between her crush and their dating friend became a very serious relationship. The crush was saying the, "I love like a sister thing" (correction to the part up top where I said "like you like a sister/brother" it was suppose to be the word "love" instead of "like", and "This is never going to work out cause we live so many miles away from each other." in order to give her hints that he did not want a relationship other than friendship with her. He says he didn't want to hurt my friend. But my friend did not take those hints she kept her crush for him until she found out that his crush and his dating friend where going to get married. Then my friend was very upset and very hurt! Then she let him know how she felt about him but that did not change a thing cause he did not want her for anything more than a friend. He was madly in love with his dating friend.

 

 

 

Please everyone if you have met someone online and you can not met them anytime soon, PLEASE be CAREFUL not to let your emotions go to far too soon because sometimes some people on the internet are not telling the whole truth about themselves and some I am sure do not tell any truth about themselves. My friend has never met this guy nor his dating friend in person and now look what she went thru cause she could not see what was physically going on for herself.

 

My post from earlier:

 

Say you met a person whether it be male (if you are a female)or female (if you are a male) on the internet in a game room. And you lived several hundreds of miles away. You are both single (of course) but yes/no looking for someone. You, yourself perfer to be friends first then if everything keeps going great maybe more and you don't date unless a friendship goes great and you want them to be your bf/gf. He/she is definitely looking for a bf/gf relationship with someone but this person likes to date around just as friends with people to see if it becomes of a bf/gf situation. Well, everything is going great for about two months. You two talk all the time ethier by phone, internet, or cards. He/she says things that make you think he/she is interested in you as more than a friend. Well, over this time you have developed a crush for this person but have never told them about your crush on them and you are not going to tell them you have a crush on them till several months later. All of the sudden, he/she is talking to you one day and says, "Oh, I really like you as a brother/sister." or another time they will say, "This is never going to work out, we live so many hundreds of miles away from each other."

 

Please answer these questions first and then read on. You have to remember that at this time you don't know what the future holds so to give an actual true answer to these questions you can't know the future, yet.

 

1. How would you react to them saying that to you?

 

2. Would you still talk to them and keep your crush for them?

 

 

 

Con't.

All of the sudden one day, he/she starts talking about this person that they met and they say they are only going out dating this person as a friend. Well, they introduce you to this person. This person only lives 15 mins. from your crush. Well, you decide to be a nice person and start talking to this person your crush is dating. You and your crushes dating friend talk almost on a regular basis on the internet only, now. And you are never going to tell your crushes friend that you have a crush on your crush that they are dating and your crush still does not know about your crush on them yet and still will not know about it for several months. Well, when you talk to your crushes dating friend they tell you stuff that makes it seem like the friendship between your crush and their dating friend is more like a bf/gf relationship and at times the way the crushes dating friend says stuff it comes acrossed like it is a serious bf/gf relationship. Well, you confront your crush about it and he/she just says that that person is only a friend and what the crushes dating friend said were lies or stretches of truth.

 

3. Who would you believe? Your crush or the crushes dating friend?

 

4. How would you react to this?

 

5. Would you still talk to the person and keep your crush for them?

 

 

 

I hope this makes sense. Any answers and comments would be greatly appreciated.

 

Note for second part of my story: This dating friend that your crush is dating, they met them two months AFTER they met you. They met them on the internet also. But they are dating them IN PERSON! You on the other hand have never met your crush in person nor their dating friend. And your crush introduced you to their dating friend in a chat conference online.

 

Knowing this information may change one or more of your answers.

 

Sorry!