Happy Lemming Posted May 20, 2019 Posted May 20, 2019 I still think it's a man's job to show interest first. Funny thing is I know nothing about him. has kid? EXs? that might be deal breaker for me. Oh I agree that (traditionally) the man should approach the woman, but it seems you have expressed a great deal of interest in this gentleman. So based on that fact, it may be necessary to bend the rules a bit and introduce yourself and invite him to lunch. At that point, I'm sure he will tell you about his situation. Kids?? Ex's?? other deal breakers?? etc.?? I also think whatever you have been doing in the past to attract men, hasn't been working (according to your previous threads). You've also expressed wanting a family and don't want to be childless (according to previous threads), thus my advice to take a more proactive stance towards finding that someone special.
chillii Posted May 20, 2019 Posted May 20, 2019 (edited) Don't know anything about this swiping thing haven't had the displeasure thanks god by the sounds. But l see a lot talking about their matches on date sites. l was only on one a short stint but l had no idea anyone would take any notice of this match thing they send you. Mine sent 100s a week so that pretty well said it all anyway seems l only ever went for a one in 10million anyway and l'm a very unusual type myself so how the hell could they find me 100s of matches every week. l just looked through the site and found my own. That swiping thing probably means no more than all these silly matches they use to send me. Who knows what little contraption they have set in there to make sure the girls feel like they're getting plenty of attention and stick around. Edited May 20, 2019 by chillii
dispatch3d Posted May 21, 2019 Posted May 21, 2019 So of these over 10k right swipes, how many did you swipe right, and how many you ended up meeting in person? she's got 10k right swipes, why you rushin her?
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