ericw899 Posted May 14, 2019 Posted May 14, 2019 So long story short, I went on a great date with this girl in December. We had great conversation, very flirty & ended the night kissing goodnight as well as a couple other times. Afterwards I tried to arrange other dates but she kept flaking. All of sudden we reconnected last week & she wants to go out tonight. I am a bit unsure on what to expect & I’d love some advice on situations like this. Do I jump in & act like there was no time gap or take it slow like a first date.
olivetree Posted May 14, 2019 Posted May 14, 2019 You've only been on one date. Even if there was no time gap, a second date is still the beginning. Take it slow.
Foxhall Posted May 14, 2019 Posted May 14, 2019 Good luck, chemistry can be tricky to find so if you are thinking that is there go all out to ignite it.
snowboy91 Posted May 14, 2019 Posted May 14, 2019 I'm surprised a second date happened so much later. You'll probably want to make things way more regular from here, but hey, you got a second date. There was a time gap, so act like there was. It's not as if it's the first time you've met this person, but it's been a while since you did. You'll have plenty to talk about then!
I'veseenbetterlol Posted May 15, 2019 Posted May 15, 2019 I would have lost interest after a week or 2 of no 2nd date. More then likely she found another guy (or guys) and saw them as a better opportunity. She prob only contacted you because she had no one else.
Rocker71 Posted May 15, 2019 Posted May 15, 2019 I would have lost interest after a week or 2 of no 2nd date. More then likely she found another guy (or guys) and saw them as a better opportunity. She prob only contacted you because she had no one else. Seems like her interest level is low and she agreed to go out with you because it's better than staying home looking at the four walls. Personally, I'd flake and forget about her. If her interest was high she would not have let so much time pass in between getting together again. But if you think you can work hard enough to raise her interest go ahead. If you're gonna go out with her don't buy her a dinner. Get a drink and go dancing. Try to get her back to yours or her place. Women who are interested don't want so much time to pass to see you again. Interested women don't think "I'll wait a few months and see if he wants to see me again." They contact you soon after the first date wanting to see you again.
Flame Aura Posted May 15, 2019 Posted May 15, 2019 Sounds like she met someone better (in her opinion), that didn't work out, now she is falling back to you as her backup. Proceed with caution.
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