menyou Posted May 6, 2019 Posted May 6, 2019 I see a lot about new relationships that start off going 0-60 crashing and burning. What if you mutually decide to take things slower? Does that increase the odds of possibly something long term?
smackie9 Posted May 6, 2019 Posted May 6, 2019 Some would assume so...but like any relationship, it's a toss of the dice no matter what. 1
preraph Posted May 6, 2019 Posted May 6, 2019 It would be tricky, I guess. I think it would be important to stop expecting so much "maintenance" via texting, etc., and instead have quality face time so that you don't burn out from just telling each other everything via text and then be bored in person.
The Outlaw Posted May 6, 2019 Posted May 6, 2019 Possibly, but there aren't any guarantees. Last one I had, I wanted to take it slow. She didn't. I was ghosted, but was better off without her in the long run.
greymatter Posted May 7, 2019 Posted May 7, 2019 I see a lot about new relationships that start off going 0-60 crashing and burning. What if you mutually decide to take things slower? Does that increase the odds of possibly something long term? Define slow. What does that mean to you?
mejustme Posted May 7, 2019 Posted May 7, 2019 In my experience, it hasn’t worked out, but it could go either way I suppose if you are both playing on mutual grounds.
Foxhall Posted May 7, 2019 Posted May 7, 2019 slow but not too slow, you probably need to meet at least once a week or 3 times in a month, no slower than that, I dated a lady casually for 6 months, meeting once a month! it proved difficult to build any proper intimacy or connection, it was like we were always strangers again at the start of each date.
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