jj888 Posted May 4, 2019 Posted May 4, 2019 Met a girl around a year ago but we have since moved to different country. We used to text a lot for a few months and we've gone out a couple of times, but we've spoken less for the past couple of months. She's graduating from university soon and I'd like to send something nice (no expectation of anything, I just want to make her happy since she's an amazing person!). However, I don't know her address so I'm planning to send it to her university instead. Should I?
Gaeta Posted May 4, 2019 Posted May 4, 2019 No, don't make someone a priority when you're only entertainment to them. Flowers are for girlfriends, not for crushes. 1
preraph Posted May 4, 2019 Posted May 4, 2019 If you don't know her address, then I don't think you should send her flowers. Universities are big places. I would doubt the flowers get to her. There's no one on staff to hunt her down and deliver them for you. I suggest you send her an online greeting card and that that is really the most that is appropriate at this point. I recommend Jacquie Lawson 2
Shining One Posted May 4, 2019 Posted May 4, 2019 Don't send flowers to women you haven't seen naked. I wish someone had drilled that lesson into me when I was younger. 4
d0nnivain Posted May 4, 2019 Posted May 4, 2019 I had a crush give me flowers once for a graduation. It was the start of something wonderful. That said no you should not send flowers for 3 very important reasons: 1. You are long distance. Flowers won't change anything. 2. You don't know her address. Sending them to her university guarantees she won't get them. It's not a hotel where the front desk will get them to her room. You will be wasting you money. By the time graduation comes around she no longer lives there anyway. You move out of the dorms about a week before graduation. 3. You are deluding yourself. You say you have no expectations but that is a lie. You want her to be so thrilled that she will come back to you. 4
smackie9 Posted May 4, 2019 Posted May 4, 2019 I remember when I dated a guy briefly, then he moved away....forgot about him after a few months. 3 years later I ran into him again....those feelings were gone. I doubt she would be interested in more contact with you....not worth anyones time here. Just send her an ecard. 1
Foxhall Posted May 4, 2019 Posted May 4, 2019 Don't send flowers to women you haven't seen naked. I wish someone had drilled that lesson into me when I was younger. hmmn interesting one "I neither agree nor disagree"!
Foxhall Posted May 4, 2019 Posted May 4, 2019 (edited) It kind of reminds me of my friendship with Mexican girl, When she returned to her own land, I sent her a Birthday Book one year (online gift- I think it was book of everyone- its a great gift actually) I think it has helped us to maintain our friendship and I am certainly glad I did this, not sure every situation is different though, sometimes if romance is a long shot too, you are better to let this type of thing go, rather than letting a false dream stop you from moving on. so there is an idea anyway if the flowers don't work! Edited May 4, 2019 by Foxhall
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