SugarWereGoinDown Posted September 22, 2005 Posted September 22, 2005 Im almost 16 and i never had a girlfriend... I never found the need for one, and thoguht it wasnt worth the drama. But this girl has a crush on me as do i.. shes older then me she just turned 17! Im soo nervous to go up to her, but i realized shes more shy then me and thats pretty danm shy. Im so nervous to talk to her iv never had a really attractive girl have a crush on me.. I want to get to know her more before i do anything or ask her out or anything. But its a real self-esteem boost. I dont know what to say shes older then me!! I dont know what to talk to her about. Shes in my lunch i want to go up to her soooooooo BAD, I dont have the spine to tho. I question myself like "What happens if she doesnt want me around her senior friends?" I know some of the seniors there and im not really uncomfortable around them I guess what im saying is what do i do!!! do what comes naturally? just be myself and talk to her? its not so ez!
CHAZ87 Posted September 22, 2005 Posted September 22, 2005 Nut up and go up to her. If you have any kind of sense of humor, use it. My youngest brother is very confident and cocky. As a frosh, he was invited to two dances, with seniors. So even if you are not confident, use cockiness. It helps with the shortfall of confidence. How long have you known her? Are you sure she has a crush on you? If so, why the hell are you posting here. Go up to her, take a deep breath, ask to speak with her, before she answers, sit down. you do the intiating. If she is shy, you need to break the ice. Or you could stay on your side of the lunch room with the nose-pickers and freak-shows wondering, "What do I say." Just go up to her and as soon as you find the right things to say, your confidence level, not to mention your stock with older gals, will sky-rocket. Good Luck.
Author SugarWereGoinDown Posted September 23, 2005 Author Posted September 23, 2005 her cheerleading friends (sophmores my age) told me she has a crush on me... and i think shes friggin gorgeous.. being cocky is not my thing i really have nothing to be cocky about lol
questionsforyall Posted September 23, 2005 Posted September 23, 2005 since your at school do you have any classes in common with her or is she in a grade above you? if she is good because you can relate to her with the classes you have in common, if no ask those girls who told you she likes you if she had any of the teachers you currently have. then if you did or do. mock those teachers say something like that guy grades hard eh. but that could come off as your not smart. hrm. how about i think that miss whatever has elf ears she always hides with her long hair do you know? ask her something dumb, act to smart and she might be like um wtf. or if you want just go up and say hi, my names whatever, i think ur beautiful. one girl i know said to use that your beautiful one because it lets the girl know you think shes hot right away and then she wont have to wonder about what you think about her which is good. main thing to remember , if you do absolutely nothing but doing what your doing right now your going to regret it. then later youll find out she went out with some guy from your grade that you think is a total loser and youll be fn crushed. do you wanna have to live with that or do you wanna have to live with some super cool girl that has a crush on you go talk to her , then post what happens dammit:D
questionsforyall Posted September 23, 2005 Posted September 23, 2005 oh yeah you have , she has a crush on you to be cocky about, if anything go say hey , i hear you have a crush on me? then go
Author SugarWereGoinDown Posted September 23, 2005 Author Posted September 23, 2005 Im going to talk to her monday im guna man up and go to her table!! i talk to her on aim alot ... rotation? Now e dont have any classes together =( just lunch I didnt go to her table today because some B**** wasnt watching where she was going and spilled orange slushie on my shirt .. thank god she did not see
Fatb Posted September 23, 2005 Posted September 23, 2005 again im in same situation but i have jus started talking to her however she is making the 1st moves ie,in a txt after about 20 in space of 3 hours she says "you should be asking me this, do you wanna go out sometime outa 6 form?" i reli do wish i had sed it and sounded more confident but i am reli shy. I use cockiness to talk to girls trust me if they say or do something i duno silly or weird like start putting make up on in front of you pick up on that and go "wot r you doing with tht" she shud reply arghh i need it i look well rough, then a simple reply like dont be daft you look fine/beuatiful etc. Ive used it many times and it never fails:laugh:
loveherfromadistance Posted September 23, 2005 Posted September 23, 2005 hey go for it. just say something casual. like, "you want to hang out after school sometime?" if she says yes give her your number and tell her to give you a call when she's free. then she will have your number and it's all in her hands. She will know you're interested. Don't come off too cool. Try the sweet guy aproach. And smile at her. Trust me, regret is the worst thing in the world. You better get her now while shes still free.
Author SugarWereGoinDown Posted September 23, 2005 Author Posted September 23, 2005 im doin it im doint it monday im doin it my stomach is going to drop but the more i talk to her the more i want to talk to her i find myself waiting for her to sign on AIM and get excited whensomeone signs on because i think its her
ALittleTeapot Posted September 23, 2005 Posted September 23, 2005 Awww. I miss feeling like that. I haven't had a secret crush in years.
Author SugarWereGoinDown Posted September 23, 2005 Author Posted September 23, 2005 I got some questions... I feel kind of desprate if i keep instant messaging her as soon as she gets on and stuff like that Should i wait for her to IM me bc i dont want to seem like I want her? Is that what she wants? Never been in this kind of situation like this before itss so hard to read girls
ALittleTeapot Posted September 23, 2005 Posted September 23, 2005 I'd consider that type of behavior to be a form of mind game. Of course, I played all sorts of those games when I was 16. I don't play those types of games anymore because I realized that it is what it is. She either likes you or she doesn't, so just be yourself. But in a direct answer to your question, don't withhold yourself from IMing because you're worried about your image. Or find another way to get a hold of her.
Author SugarWereGoinDown Posted September 23, 2005 Author Posted September 23, 2005 now shes offering me car rides and stuff and i think she wanted me to ask for ehr number bc she said call me if u ever need a ride and how could ic all her if i dont have her number!
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