js_77 Posted April 29, 2019 Share Posted April 29, 2019 Dating my girlfriend for a year, just saw a text from other guy complimenting my girlfriend in her phone, should I worry about this? She posted a selfie in whatsapp status and he said "Hi my friend, doing great everyday!" She replied "Thank you" Should I worry about this? Maybe is not a big deal. She doesn't know I saw this text because I have my fingerprint scanned in her phone (we share our fingerprints in our phones)! Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted April 29, 2019 Share Posted April 29, 2019 Dating my girlfriend for a year, just saw a text from other guy complimenting my girlfriend in her phone, should I worry about this? She posted a selfie in whatsapp status and he said "Hi my friend, doing great everyday!" She replied "Thank you" Should I worry about this? Maybe is not a big deal. She doesn't know I saw this text because I have my fingerprint scanned in her phone (we share our fingerprints in our phones)! What really could happen if you can get into her phone anytime and read whatever you want to read behind her back? She knows you can access the phone. She's on whatsapp... clearly she can be seen on there... short of you deleting the app from her phone (and possibly getting dumped behind that), not much you can do but trust her. Can she be trusted? How did you get with her? Was she with someone else when you got with her? Why the distrust? Link to post Share on other sites
Foxhall Posted April 29, 2019 Share Posted April 29, 2019 Personally I was never the possessive type and was ambivalent really in my previous relationships to this type of thing, I guess that is one reason why I never married any of these girls, I did not want them enough at the end of the day, that being said, I don't think watching your girl or getting uptight about this is a good idea, a bit of flirting and so on is natural, I know I flirt with a friend of mine who has a boyfriend and yet I know she will always be faithful and that to him but just enjoys the bit of fun as it were. don't get lazy though, there are plenty of guys out there who will take her off you if you drop your game!! Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 29, 2019 Share Posted April 29, 2019 No you should not worry about it. It's social media. It's meaningless. At most be happy & proud that a woman who is getting compliments from others has chosen to be with you. Remember she picked you as her BF. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted April 29, 2019 Share Posted April 29, 2019 As interactions go, it was benign. Your posting history has a very long list of jealousy/insecurity issues. I'm wondering if having access to her phone is really a smart thing to do. Being able to check on her every time you feel like it actually rewards the jealousy cycle. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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