giganto Posted April 28, 2019 Posted April 28, 2019 We went last week the whole day, but I felt something was wrong the way she acted. Sure it's still a good day, but the way she put her hands in pockets all the time really upset me. It's like preventing me holding her hands. Conversation is still flowing but she had something in her mind. At the end of the day, I was upset because I spent like 15 hours with her. she knows me (how do I look, talk, etc). We had our own fun before this trip. I asked this girl out again today, but she sent this message: 'Let’s see. Wednesday is a day off, right. I don’t know how the locals celebrate the labor day'. What kind of response should I write? I just don't want to look like uncultured man.
kendahke Posted April 28, 2019 Posted April 28, 2019 "Let me know"... and leave it at that. If she's interested in you, you'll hear from her. If she's not, you won't. That doesn't mean you sit by the phone twiddling your thumbs---you're talking to other women, right?
bachdude Posted April 28, 2019 Posted April 28, 2019 You keep saying your upset she had her hands in her pockets and that you spent 15 hours with her. Upset about what? She doesn't owe you anything. Sometimes we invest in relationships and they go no where. That's how it goes. If you feel something is wrong, such as a lack of interest, then back off. Sounds like you have all sorts of expectations about how this whole dating game works.
Author giganto Posted April 28, 2019 Author Posted April 28, 2019 You keep saying your upset she had her hands in her pockets and that you spent 15 hours with her. Upset about what? She doesn't owe you anything. Sometimes we invest in relationships and they go no where. That's how it goes. If you feel something is wrong, such as a lack of interest, then back off. Sounds like you have all sorts of expectations about how this whole dating game works. Yes i understand. Maybe i was just frustated I can't cut short the trip.
Author giganto Posted April 28, 2019 Author Posted April 28, 2019 "Let me know"... and leave it at that. If she's interested in you, you'll hear from her. If she's not, you won't. That doesn't mean you sit by the phone twiddling your thumbs---you're talking to other women, right? i am meeting a woman next week. I know i need to up the numbers.
preraph Posted April 28, 2019 Posted April 28, 2019 I wonder why you spent 15 hours and didn't cut it off after three or four. Were you having fun? Were you in her town or something? Was she just showing you the sights but making clear that's all it was or something, or had you two been kind of romantic before either texting or something?
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