Bantosm Posted April 28, 2019 Posted April 28, 2019 I asked out a woman that another co worker is also interested in. She told me that she has a boyfriend and I left it at that. My coworker also asked her out and he said she's getting ready to move out with her boyfriend two states away. Then three days later she added me on social media. I hardly know her so I don't understand why she would do that when she is supposed to be moving soon. Any ideas?
basil67 Posted April 28, 2019 Posted April 28, 2019 She added you on social media because you're an acquaintance. It would appear there is no deeper meaning. 2
Blind-Sided Posted April 28, 2019 Posted April 28, 2019 I wouldn't read anything into it. I know people on FB with over 1000 "Friends". I also know some that will friend EVERYONE who they ever met, or is a friend-of-a-friend. (seems more like girls are this way) As above... you are a friend/coworker, and she probably just hopes to get some news from where she use to be. 2
smackie9 Posted April 28, 2019 Posted April 28, 2019 If you are insinuating there's mixed signals going on here, you'd be wrong. Just because a girl sits with you at lunch to talk, or offers to grab coffee for you or adds you on social media doesn't mean romantic interest. Like everyone said, you are just coworkers, she just wants to keep in touch with a few in the office to see how they are doing.... lots of coworkers add me on social media after they leave, it's pretty normal practice.
Lotsgoingon Posted April 28, 2019 Posted April 28, 2019 You're making a big deal that she added you to social media? As if that is a contradiction to telling you she is dating someone else. You approached her ... she told you she was not available ... she added you to social media because she figures you might turn out to be a friend. What she did is actually a compliment. It says she doesn't look down on you for expressing interest ... she thinks you're an OK person. I assume this woman is a coworker ... if so, she's heard things about you most likely ... and what she has heard has been good. 1
Marc878 Posted April 28, 2019 Posted April 28, 2019 She's a social butterfly. Probably friends everyone she knows. Anything more would be a huge stretch only on your part. It's nothing
Foxhall Posted April 28, 2019 Posted April 28, 2019 shes simply being courteous, she has no romantic interest in you, but is acknowledging that she did not mind you asking her out and is happy to make an acquaintance with you,
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