Manipulated trois Posted September 22, 2005 Posted September 22, 2005 OK LS Thiis is all complicated. My fiance lEYC and I were with each other for a year and broken up for 2 months after. We knew that we were definitely made for each other. After one year she leaves me and tells me there is nothing to save our relationship. She said that she fell out of love with me. I beg and plead to ask her what were the reasons. She would never tell me. So after the break-up I am contacted by my ex, LKN (we only went out for 3 months), 2 years prior to lEYC. LKN and I text a few times and she mentions lets go to dinner somewhere nice. All I wanted to do was to tel LKN that i was sorry for not being a good bf and all of that. But I always had the feeling the LKN left me for someone else because the last thing that LKN told me was that it didn't please her because I was a three pump chump. I got over LKN. So I dont hear from LKN and I text her. What's up with dinner. She says she cannot so I never pursue any further. A couple of weeks later I hear the LKN and lEYC are friends and that LKN is also bi. I was quite surprised but I knew that lEYC contacted LKN for I dont know why. So LKN and lEYC hang out for a while and I dont know about their being friends until I found that they both were running a smear campaign on me. They were spreading lies how I had cheated on LKN, which is absolutely not true. So I confronted them and told them to stay away from me. I sent each nasty letters with different contents and left messages on both. I sent lEYC a letter saying that I was hurt that she would hurt me by spreading false rumors and that our relationship was purely love. I told her that she should have known me better and that I did not appreciate her telling people about my parents being horrible. I left messages with lEYC saying that I loved her but she just not a good person anymore. I sent LKN a letter stating that I hope she rot with hades because I know she wanted to get back with me so she told LKN that I was not managamous with LKN during our relationship. I told LKN that EYC was so much more classier than her and that lEYC was 100 time hotter than her. I told LKN to never talk to me again and to stay away from me. I had only wanted to bring closure to the relationship between LKN and lEYC. I said that my horoscope sign rule over hers so she could not hurt me. I told both that I was gonna call the authorities if they keep spying on me. A week later, lEYC has decided to give me a second chance after countless of hours trying to explain to her that I was true to the relationship that it was magical. However, I never spoke to LKN again. They were not hanging out during that week that lEYC decided to come back. Three days later, lEYC and LKN go out with another friend drinking last night. So lEYC and I are in NC mode so I dont hear from her. However, I find out later that lEYC was out until 6 in the morning as she left with some guy. LKN contacts me to tell me this. I later find out the lEYC left with some other guy because LKN told lEYC that I cheated with LKN during my vacation when lEYC was assisting with her sick mother. I had never spoken with LKN during this time so that is a blatant lie. I believe LKN didnt like the fact that the sex was absolutely amazing with me and lEYC. So I am assuming something happened with lEYC and that guy so that she can get back to me, and that LKN told lEYC to get back at me. I also heard that LKN had a little crush on lEYC. lEYC told LKN that they should be friends only until lEYC would come back to me. Well now that I hear all this and I am the innocent bystander. lEYC tells me there is no more chance. I have been spending all my energy trying to get back lEYC and now I just am completed deflated. I know that I lEYC was the best thing in my life. I give all my energies to lEYC. And just when I get her back she leaves again. I heard that lEYC later messed around with some guy during the time after our break-up. So can anyone tell me that this was set up in the beginning. I love lEYC so much that I want to die. I would do anything to have lEYC back. She is everything to me. I have no emotional attachment to LKN whatsoever. I actually despise LKN and told her so too. Now, I guess it is now deciding to never go back to lEYC because I dont want to go through all this again. I might mind you that I was faithful in both relationships. However, I was a better person in all ways when I was with lEYC. I was immature with LKN and we had something there but not like me and lEYC. So I am started to regret telling lEYC that LKN was trying to get me back and was jealous of lEYC. Did I do write by walking away from lEYC. I was completely faithful to her and gave her everything. I know your gonna say I am a sap, but I know lEYC is my fate. Is it best to COMPLETELY walk away from everything or can lEYC and I get help to save the relationship. It appears that lEYC does not want anything with me right now. I love her so much and I would take her back in an instant. But I also know that I cannot take all of this as it is taking a toll on my health. I am scared that they mwy try to do something to me now. I have changed all my phone and changed all my passwords. I asked for a leave of absence effective immediately as I am so distressed. I want lEYC so bad but how could she hurt me like this. Can we get pass this. I feel like I want to just jump off a bridge or something. I cannot believe the LKN would go at great lengths to ruin me. I want to say, but something tells me the lEYC is the one for me. Should I just stay out of site forever from lEYC?
Art_Critic Posted September 22, 2005 Posted September 22, 2005 You need to remove yourself from all this drama...... Go find someone else
whichwayisup Posted September 22, 2005 Posted September 22, 2005 I agree. All that heartache isn't worth it.
sundrop Posted September 22, 2005 Posted September 22, 2005 1) you can't control what people say about you. (trust me I know my ex has done this to me) 2) why would you want to be with someone like that? you are a better person than they are. If all they have time to do is spread ungly lies about you, than they need a life and you don't need them in your life. here is somebody out there that will accept your love and not stomp all over it. Take a deep breath and calm down. This will all pass and you will be a stronger better person.
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