BrendanBaker Posted April 24, 2019 Posted April 24, 2019 To start I am in college, and want people's input on if a girl was interested in me and what I should have done. To start I had to drop a form off first thing in the morning so I got there before the office opened. A few minutes later a really cute girl in a dress(I am not used to girls talking to me at all let alone one as good looking as her) came in and started talking to me. She started by saying do you think they are going to open on time. And we got talking from there. We talked about our majors, where she was from, what she is doing this summer. One thing during the conversation that I did not know how to read was she said in high school she used to run track and the track team used to weight lift. She said people used to be scared of her when she used to lift. I am into power lifting and am pretty big. For reference she was around 5'4" 110lb and I am 6' 210lb. So I don't know if she was saying she was scared of me or was just an awkward thing to say. For context we were alone in a hall waiting for the office to open. We keep talking I asked her advice for running and she was really receptive and made an effort to keep the conversation going. Another point in the conversation that was weird to me is we talked about our school(it's an engineering school with 60% guys). She said that some of the guys are creepy. It was kind of out of no where. That scared me, because I wanted to ask her to get lunch this weekend, but her bringing up creepy guys made me feel like she would then think I was creepy. I don't know why she would bring up creepy guys. After that we keep talking a bit, someone who works there sees us and asks me what I was there for then said I needed to goto a different office. I start walking away and the girl says nice meeting you.
alphamale Posted April 24, 2019 Posted April 24, 2019 girls don't talk to creepy guys unless they are forced to. apparently you are not creepy 1
Gretchen12 Posted April 24, 2019 Posted April 24, 2019 Oh please! You were supposed to SAVE her from the creepy guys. But you walked away. She even had to call after you with a "nice meeting you". What's a girl to do?! 1
bachdude Posted April 24, 2019 Posted April 24, 2019 You blew it, man. You had a gorgeous babe approach YOU, someone that shares your interests, and you did NOTHING. Next time ask for her number. You'll learn a lot by the way she gives it to you (or doesn't for that matter). Then call her up (no text) several days later and ask her out to lunch. And why would you think she was implying you are creepy? She's talking about the super geeky, no social skills type of guy. Fate offered up a perfect opportunity for you on a silver platter and you passed it by. 1
Foxhall Posted April 24, 2019 Posted April 24, 2019 Not to worry mate,I completely understand the creepy comment dented your confidence ( even though it was not intended to you) and you reverted to shell focus on the positives, you held a conversation with a gorgeous girl and sparked her interest, I am sure you will bump into her around the college again, hopefully soon, chat about how training is going and ask her casually for a drink ( I am sure you can charm her better than I could ever advise you!)
preraph Posted April 24, 2019 Posted April 24, 2019 So you felt like you were creepy? Are you creepy? Or do you just overthink stuff? Next time you see her, stop and talk and get her phone number.
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