Author menyou Posted April 26, 2019 Author Posted April 26, 2019 Aaaaaaand he’s back. That was faster than I imagined. Guilt??
TheFinalWord Posted April 26, 2019 Posted April 26, 2019 Doubt it's guilt. When people break up, they've been thinking about it for a while. Rarely impulsive unless there was some major fight or cheating. He's wishy washy. I don't think we got the context here. What was the reason for the break-up? Has the issue been resolved? If not, it will just happen again.
Author menyou Posted April 27, 2019 Author Posted April 27, 2019 Doubt it's guilt. When people break up, they've been thinking about it for a while. Rarely impulsive unless there was some major fight or cheating. He's wishy washy. I don't think we got the context here. What was the reason for the break-up? Has the issue been resolved? If not, it will just happen again. Never a single fight, no cheating. We met online but already ran with the same circles. I have had a rough 5 years. Divorce, death, moving multiple times etc he’s at the tail end of his divorce and it’s the complete opposite of what my situation was. In the beginning we knew we had to take it slow but we get along with extreme chemistry regardless. I had a year + to focus on myself before we met and I am in a good place. I know his issues sit with the way he was hurt prior to his divorce. He’s not ready and I told him that. I want to take it slow without throwing it all away. I have a load of “baggage” so I would never judge someone else’s situation. Neither of us have interest in cohabitation or marriage. We just get along really well. In my last relationship I was wishy washy and I swore to myself if I ever found someone that I felt strongly about I wouldn’t be that way. No two people are alike and everyone has their own timeline, I get that. It was really by chance that we got together.
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