crazyguy123 Posted April 23, 2019 Posted April 23, 2019 So last year, my friends tried to set me up with this girl. We tried to do a double date and she flaked Then I asked her out myself... still havent met this girl yet and she would flake both times. Left it at that. Now those same friends are having a party next week. She will be there and I wouldnt know what to do. I'll still talk to her but I wouldnt mind going out with her either. What do I do?
GTR King Posted April 23, 2019 Posted April 23, 2019 Just act normal & be civl with her, if she says hi or speaks to you then talk back, Don’t go out of your way to talk to someone who is not interested etc
bachdude Posted April 23, 2019 Posted April 23, 2019 So you asked her out without having met her...Since she flaked on the first blind date, it isn't surprising she flaked on the second one as well. How do you even know you'd like to take her out without having met her?? Will she recognize you? Has she seen a pic? If so, I'd say your chances are slim she will go out. But if you want to give it one last college try after meeting face to face, if it were me, I'd probably try a little humor and light conversation to show you don't take the whole situation too seriously and if she shows some signs of interest, and only if she shows signs, ask her out.
d0nnivain Posted April 23, 2019 Posted April 23, 2019 Just say hello & be normal. Unless she's all over you, assume she has no interest in dating you. She's flaked enough times. Still you have to be polite but take a hint already, she's not GF material, too unreliable.
basil67 Posted April 23, 2019 Posted April 23, 2019 Treat her as you would anyone else at the party. 2
preraph Posted April 23, 2019 Posted April 23, 2019 It's unclear if you two have even seen each other. So hard to respond. But if she has seen you and flaked, then she is likely still not interested. If she hadn't seen you and flaked, then why on earth do you think you'd like her? From looking at social media or something? Wouldn't she have done the same? I think all you can do is chit chat with her and see if she's receptive or not. If not, walk away.
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