preraph Posted April 24, 2019 Posted April 24, 2019 Everyone at work is already gossiping about you. That's not good. You're trying to ask her to be with you and get an affirmation without any risk -- well, you can see where that got you. Everyone at work gossiping. And you did this to yourself because since you asked her to go with you in a work context, she can certainly tell anyone at work she wants to, can't she? She wouldn't have gotten annoyed if she actually wanted to go out with you, and she would have just said pleasantly, "I'm sorry, what do you mean?" to try to find out what you were getting at. instead of trying to not stick your neck out, as long as you're willing to ruin your employment, you should have asked her out on a date. Then at least she'd know what you were up to and you'd know what she was up to when she said no or made some excuse. And then you hope she doesn't complain to the boss that now she feels awkward and like you're always in her business.
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