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Honestly guys! What is more important the body or the face?

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Juliet Established Member

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I was just wondering what is more important to most men. An attractive face or body? If a woman was to do self improvement does that mean hit the gym or get some botox..lol or both. I am just curious..honest answers only!

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Tough to compare the 2 ..

 

If the lights are off the body is more important..

 

I think both go hand in hand as far as what I'm attracted to..

If you love someone their body really isn't as big of an issue ..

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Bodies change over time, shape and sizes. Faces usually stay more or less the same.

 

Personally it's not a big deal for either. Attraction and love is just there when you meet the right person and to me, those aren't deal breakers! My husband had a beard when I first met him. I really don't like beards but it didn't matter with him.

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Juliet Established Member

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That sounds like an honest answer. If you lose the light you are grounded to touch only.

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both are impt to men... I personally will make adjustments. So if she has a nice face but body is only OK that is fine. Or if she has a smokin' body but face is average that is OK too. If a woman has both then she's most likely a high-maintenance gold digger :laugh:

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I know women do not care so much...we are less shallow..

 

So if we were to drain a little more out of the shallow pool what are guys honest answers?

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If a woman has both then she's most likely a high-maintenance gold digger :laugh:

:lmao:

 

can't really choose so i will say both

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Although this question is directed at the Guys.. I'm going to agree with WWIU and Juliet that usually Women are not as shallow regarding looks/bodies... this isn't to say all Women feel that way.. but yeah most of my Girlfriends are more likely to over look the "Looks" if they meet someone amazing.

 

With that said.. When I first met my BF, I wasn't sure if I was physically attracted enough to have a relationship with him... HOWEVER the more time I spent with him the more attractive he became.. I really liked WHO he is.

 

For him (My BF) he had told me that when he first met me, he didn't think he had a chance... is body and face important to him... LOL I would be lying if I said I didn't think it mattered to him.

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The face:love:, and that in a very peculiar way.

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Juliet Established Member

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The face, and that in a very peculiar way.

please define "peculiar way" lol

d'Arthez Established Member

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It is hard to give words to. As it is subconscious - so I can't explain exactly why it is that way for me.

But for me the face of a person is the characteristic on which I decided whether or not I was interested in considering pursuing something. It is not the eye color or hair color of the woman. It is not simple beauty or youthful looks.

 

I think it is, at least for me, that their smile and laughs are expressive of the character of a woman. And a good character is much more important than having a fashionable body size.

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The whole package. For a woman to really attract me she has to have that intangible quality that I can't put my finger on. I just know she has it.

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It is hard to give words to. As it is subconscious - so I can't explain exactly why it is that way for me.

 

dude, I totally understand what you're saying. It's all about chemistry :)

 

Pretty often I'd be like 'wow, that girl is really cute' and my buddies would be like 'no freakin way'. I know I like a certain type of look, and it impossible to put that into words. I'll only know it when I see it.

 

But to answer the OP....

this is a toughie. But I think that as long as the girl has got one of the two, she's alright for me.

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To me it is an overall image that she carries about herself, confident, smart, funny, a nice attractive figure and face but not a superstar or body model.

Upon meeting, I get to know HER and if we can't wait to see and talk to each other we have that magic formula that has been going on since the dawn of man (and women:p ).

 

I might add that I would overlook a stunner for a great a$$. If a gal has a bubble butt it really peaks my physical interest. Shallow, maybe but we all have things that get our sexual juices flowing.:p

 

Still thought I would skip the great butt for a gal that really gets me.

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I might add that I would overlook a stunner for a great a$$. If a gal has a bubble butt it really peaks my physical interest. Shallow, maybe but we all have things that get our sexual juices flowing.:p

 

OMG, Jay, you and I were meant for each other :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

 

I may have posted this on the site before but I once had a guy tell me that while his friend's all went for the 10s when they were out he never did. He said that it intimidated him and he always went for the 7s and 8s....(I didn't really know whether to take that as an insult or not)...but I took that with me.

 

I've also heard guys say about friends of mine something similar to what Jay said about the way the woman carries herself. I also agree with Elijah and d'Arthez that chemistry is important. Women have the same thing. You can find a guy that is attractive or has all of the qualities that you want but if there's no chemistry then you just can't force it. The same way that you can have amazing chemistry with someone who is really wrong for you or that you wouldn't necessarily find attractive on the surface.

 

I guess there's more to it than face versus body.

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OMG, Jay, you and I were meant for each other

 

You and me babe till the end of time.:love::bunny: :bunny:

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The body is the first thing guys will look at! So if your takin things on 1st impression we will be looking at the body!

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I think woman are just as shallow as men when it comes to body image.. Im only 16 i may not know better but... around here girls like the slim six pack guys... or the big buff guys

 

Girls dont really want a guy that isnt physically fit and doesnt look somewhat tone

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The body is the first thing guys will look at! So if your takin things on 1st impression we will be looking at the body!

 

yo pippen, how 'bout if da girl has a great body but is butt ugly?

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I think woman are just as shallow as men when it comes to body image.. Im only 16 i may not know better but... around here girls like the slim six pack guys... or the big buff guys

 

Girls dont really want a guy that isnt physically fit and doesnt look somewhat tone

 

that's cos you're still 16. When you hit 30 you'll pick the $$$ guy over them slim six-packers :p

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yo pippen, how 'bout if da girl has a great body but is butt ugly?

 

A Butter Face!!!! :laugh: :laugh:

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A Butter Face!!!! :laugh: :laugh:

 

:lmao: :lmao: :lmao:

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Since there is only 2 choices.....my preference would be the face.

 

Body shape, (althought important for sexual attractiveness) comes secondary in my book. I love ALL types of body styles and shapes....whatever it dont matter.....I could be attrached to an athletic type or curvey voluptious....it really dont matter to me.....I cant help it...ALL women are beautiful in there own way ;)

 

But the face....a nice smile and piercing eyes :love: ...gets me everytime...I dont even notice the body...

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I think a cute face will get you further with me than a great body. Ideally you want both but if I had to pick one I would go with the pretty face!

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I think a cute face will get you further with me than a great body. Ideally you want both but if I had to pick one I would go with the pretty face!

 

Tudor you rock! Cute faced people rule! How's that for my 1000th post. I wonder how many were me whining about my dickless ex or my socially inept ex or me just being stupid and silly. Let's get trashed to celebrate anyway.

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