Daan2k2 Posted April 21, 2019 Posted April 21, 2019 Hi guys, So I started talking to a girl via snapchat a few weeks ago, and we had some very good conversations. She's extremely smart and she really understands me. She is not the most attractive girl, average or just above, which should be fine. The thing is, I simply do not know whether or not I really like her personality, and because of this I don't know if I should ask her out. I'm afraid she'll be hurt if I find out I don't like her, as dates are taken really seriously where i am from, and we're pretty young so not many people do this sort of thing. Should I just do it? She would probably say yes. I'm most likely overthinking this.
bathtub-row Posted April 21, 2019 Posted April 21, 2019 Isn’t the purpose of dating to decide if you like the person or not? What caused you to think you won’t like her personality?
Gretchen12 Posted April 21, 2019 Posted April 21, 2019 She is not the most attractive girl.. I simply do not know whether or not I really like her personality.. You don't like her personality or her looks. Don't date her.
Marc878 Posted April 22, 2019 Posted April 22, 2019 Dating is for discovery. If it doesn't work out you end it quick. No harm
d0nnivain Posted April 22, 2019 Posted April 22, 2019 A date is simply a meeting by another name. You can't tell much about personality with a device (phone or computer) between you. Ask her to meet up for something casual & low key: lunch or a weeknight beverage in a well lit place like a Starbucks or other coffee house. Talk to her in person then make a decision about being just friends or pursuing something more.
kendahke Posted April 22, 2019 Posted April 22, 2019 She's extremely smart and she really understands me. I simply do not know whether or not I really like her personality, and because of this I don't know if I should ask her out. I'm afraid she'll be hurt if I find out I don't like her, as dates are taken really seriously where i am from, and we're pretty young so not many people do this sort of thing. Should I just do it? She would probably say yes. I'm most likely overthinking this. What is more important to you? Being afraid of taking action or taking action? You're not there to propose marriage to her--you're there to get to know her off of the app. 1
The Outlaw Posted April 22, 2019 Posted April 22, 2019 I'd say go for it anyway. You'll never know unless you try. 1
alphamale Posted April 22, 2019 Posted April 22, 2019 well if she is only average looking then her personality must be good. i'd go for it
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