HURTANDCONFUSED81 Posted September 22, 2005 Posted September 22, 2005 I just got out of a 2 year relationship and out of nowhere a family guy friend and I started talking...we've grown up together and turns out that we totally click. We started to talk on weekends..he's really busy because hes in med school. But then we always end up laughin so hard...he has said he feels like he's 16 whenever he talks to me..im 24 and hes 27. But then he says " oh my god I havent laughed like this in a very long time...I dont know if this is good or bad in the long run.." what does that mean? Does that mean he's not sure about me..that Im not smart enough?
AndrewJ Posted September 22, 2005 Posted September 22, 2005 You make him feel free and happy i'd say. I'd say something like that if i was enjoying my time with someone regardless of IQ level or age:)
UCFKevin Posted September 22, 2005 Posted September 22, 2005 The long run? I dunno what the hell he means by that but otherwise it certainly seems like he's into you.
lost_in_chgo Posted September 22, 2005 Posted September 22, 2005 I just got out of a 2 year relationship and out of nowhere a family guy friend and I started talking...we've grown up together and turns out that we totally click. We started to talk on weekends..he's really busy because hes in med school. But then we always end up laughin so hard...he has said he feels like he's 16 whenever he talks to me..im 24 and hes 27. But then he says " oh my god I havent laughed like this in a very long time...I dont know if this is good or bad in the long run.." what does that mean? Does that mean he's not sure about me..that Im not smart enough? Sounds more like he's enjoying his time with you and that he's surprised at how well you are getting along. The good or bad comment seems like he's thinking that he should laugh more and his life hasn't been going that way. I seriously doubt that he ever even considered the idea of you not being smart enough. If he isn't making comments along those lines, dont assume he's thinking like that, that just insecurity. Do take comments like that as an attack or an evaluation of you.
fusangite Posted September 22, 2005 Posted September 22, 2005 You know what being a 16 year old male feels like? Overwhelmed by sexual desire. This guy is attracted to you, and probably has been for some time.
Author HURTANDCONFUSED81 Posted September 23, 2005 Author Posted September 23, 2005 Thanks guys for your encouragement! Im taking this slowly because I think its good...and I know he's busy studying for the BOARDS so Im not going to bother him.
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