Honest on this?

[CarolineJolly18]

I will make it short as possible. I’ve met someone, we chatted for two weeks quite frequently and then we decided to meet up. Problem was he was in my area for just 5 weeks and he had to go soon to his own country. I still wanted to meet him because he was interesting person and we got along from the first meeting, no awkward silences, had an amazing time laughing and sharing stories. We stayed in a pub until 2 am and I had my brother to pick us up and drop him off so he could go back home safetly. Met up for a second date, we slept together, watched movies - again talked for hours. Our second date was the last one because he had to fly home. I asked him last time are we gonna keep in contact and he promised yes because he had a great time and glad he met me ( silly me believed in that). After a week past I texted him how he was doing and he was responding vaguely. I texted him multiple times and asked him if he doesn’t want to talk just tell me because I feel stupid for wasting my and your time and he said he’s just very busy and apologized. I texted him after two weeks again asking him is he ok because he was offline forever I thought something happened. He ignored it. He seen my message and it’s been like a month no response. I know he is busy person because of his job but any kind of response would be nice. I just wanted to ask do you think I’m crazy? I know we met for just couple of times but I thought we still would talk from time to time. I didn’t want anything from him, all I asked him how was he doing. That’s all. He just cut me cut off cold like I don’t even deserve a breath. I never said I wanted a relationship or anything because that’s impossible and crazy all I wanted was to have a friend to talk to because I liked taking to him. I don’t know what to think anymore especially when I even asked him to be upfront if he doesn’t want me to text him anymore.

[d0nnivain]

Many people aren't straightforward even when you give them permission to be. He is one of those.

 

Just write him off as a jerk. Sorry.

[smackie9]

I think it was two ships passing in the night...business trip fling. When they leave and they don't reach out to you...that's, that's all there was.

[preraph]

He very likely has a wife or girlfriend at home and was doing that thing where if they know they're going to be out of town for awhile, they start looking for someone to have sex with while they're there so they don't go five weeks without sex.

[stillafool]

Yeah, don't reach out anymore he's just not interested in being a text pal. He more than likely has a wife or gf he's committed to. I agree with Smackie that you guys were just two ships passing in the night.