Author faithandfood Posted April 14, 2019 Author Posted April 14, 2019 Honestly men can be stupid sometimes. I don't see his comment about your hair as being rude at all. IT CAN also be possible that he said it in a way to really mean he likes your hair, it's nice, however it's still not your hair but he your real hair because it's yours (ya know what I mean?). If I was him and you reacted that way towards me, I WOULD RUN! But, he apologized and you left him on read. So I don't blame him. Anyways, I guess it was just never meant to be. Yeah I understand what you mean. He's made many jokes. People are acting like I did this everytime when he did a joke. But the thing is, he's never seen my real hair and he know it's damaged.
stillafool Posted April 16, 2019 Posted April 16, 2019 I'm still not sure this guy did anything wrong. I don't even know if his comment was rude because it was the truth. All he said was "it's not your hair" which is the truth. I would have joked back and said "it is my hair because I bought it" and laughed.
40somethingGuy Posted April 17, 2019 Posted April 17, 2019 Why are you surprised? He makes a light comment that is true and you call him essentially an abuser? Sorry, you sound way too uptight. Chill a little. I get it that you were hurt before but he isn't the reason you were hurt so don't put that kind of attitude on him. Are you going to expect him to be perfect because no guy wants to deal with a chick where they have to walk on eggshells. I think you need to apologize to him. He might text you back. 1
fishlips Posted April 17, 2019 Posted April 17, 2019 He sounds like an ass. While his comment wasn't what I would call "abusive," it was definitely rude. I don't think I could be with someone who regularly made sarcastic "jokes" at my expense. If it was a one time thing and he is otherwise nice, then yes, you over-reacted. However, it doesn't sound like that was the case.
TheFinalWord Posted April 17, 2019 Posted April 17, 2019 I think he was just picking on you as a way of flirting. I don't think it was abusive and I do think you overreacted. He probably is losing interest because he can't be himself but will have to walk on eggshells around you. You can't take a joke. BUT... Men should know to not ever make a comment about a woman's hair or weight. Like EVER. Even joking around.
spiderowl Posted April 19, 2019 Posted April 19, 2019 I have a feeling that this 'teasing' from him is a way of showing you his upset at you not having sex with him. He knew he was pushing it and carried on. You picked up on him 'winding you up' and took it to heart.
Author faithandfood Posted April 21, 2019 Author Posted April 21, 2019 I have a feeling that this 'teasing' from him is a way of showing you his upset at you not having sex with him. He knew he was pushing it and carried on. You picked up on him 'winding you up' and took it to heart. Yeah.. that's why I said it was emotional abuse. His attitude changed since we started the foreplay. And he said he would wait when im ready. Anyways, I haven't talked to him since the ordeal. He's just been viewing my stories since. Told me congrats for passing one of my nursing clinicals. Then sent me a snap of him making ice cream... So that's been that.
preraph Posted April 21, 2019 Posted April 21, 2019 Well, I'd go have some of his ice cream and then break up with him.
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