dougal19 Posted September 21, 2005 Share Posted September 21, 2005 hi me and my ex have become great friends i go down to her place which is four hours away most weekends when im not working and when her b/f is away with the amry simply because he doesnt like how good friends we are, the thing is is she says she loves me but she is having his baby and she says she cant be with me cos i wud be ruining my life, i have talked to her about this and said it wouldnt be like that, but she has told me that her and her b/f have talked and she told him that when he is out the army it wont work between them, should i play the waiting game and hope that if they dont work out she will come back to me or should i let go off the past and move on?????? Link to post Share on other sites
kscholze Posted September 21, 2005 Share Posted September 21, 2005 My situation is the same. She is not letting you decide what you want. She makes the decision that you would ruin your life by being with her. My ex tells me how much she loves me, but doesn't want to burden me with her f'd up life. Sorry, but that is bull****. I cant tell you what you should do, but I have let my ex go because its to painful for me to hold on. Link to post Share on other sites
DesertDweller Posted September 25, 2005 Share Posted September 25, 2005 I'm confused about why it your gf and her bf won't be together when he is out of the Army. Is it because he'll be stationed somewhere else? I guess, the question is: Why is it working now, but won't later? Link to post Share on other sites
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