Jayhawks Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 What do you think of guys who just walk up to a girl and ask her for sex? I know a guy who will just cut to the chase and flat out ask her if she will have sex with him. He does very little flirting or talking with them. He doesn't care if they get mad or call him names. I might add he is a semi-attractive male so he does get some play with this technique. I also used to know a guy who would walk up to a girl and say " would you mind sitting on my face?" Both of these guys will look for intoxicated gals to increase their odds. I don't know. Makes me wonder if we have all gone to the animal kingdom. I have had women want to sleep with me with very little interest on my part and it really turned me off. What do you all think?
Art_Critic Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 I would never do it but I have witnessed first hand how powerful it can be and it works.. I was at a dance club with some friends a million years ago and this guy walks up to a girl by me and asks point blank " you wanna go back to my place and fu** ?" He got told off.. then we went thru every girl in the bar.. He got slapped, cussed out,bitched out and ingnored but in the end he walked out with not 1 but 2 women on his arm in about 15 mins... And they were smokin' hot ... I learned a valuable lesson that night but have never had the ballz to be so forward
JS17 Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 If I thought he was joking I might laugh but it wouldn't get me in bed. If I thought he was serious I would just either walk away or call him out on it. Intoxication helps, I'm sure I'm not into casual sex but maybe it would work on someone who is.
NTB Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 i think some guys can pull that off and others will sink if they try such a thing
RecordProducer Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 Sometimes we do what we "would never do"...
phyrespryte Posted September 22, 2005 Posted September 22, 2005 What do you think of guys who just walk up to a girl and ask her for sex? If it's an ugly guy, I'd think he was real desperate. If it was an ok looking guy or attractive one, I'd think he'd have a couple of nasty stds. Good looking or not I'd say no.
UCFKevin Posted September 22, 2005 Posted September 22, 2005 A friend of a friend was on a college campus and asked 100 girls this very question without knowing them. Eight said yes.
RecordProducer Posted September 22, 2005 Posted September 22, 2005 If it was an ok looking guy or attractive one, I'd think he'd have a couple of nasty stds. So you would assume that it actually works and he gets a lot of women like that? Regarding the strategy, it's laziness, resentment, and lack of style. Kinda like the guy knows in advance he'll be turned down so he doesn't want to try too hard. If I am not worth the effort then why would he be worth my time and attention? Besides, it's a complete turn off. Even animals don't do it that way. :bunny:
elijahBailey Posted September 23, 2005 Posted September 23, 2005 Even animals don't do it that way. :bunny: oh yes they do. The male lion kills the cubs not fathered by him and then goes for the booty
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 23, 2005 Posted September 23, 2005 I've done that before. I saw a guy one night that I knew would be receptive to said advance and walked up to him. He was incredibly hot too - imagine a taller, better looking version of Trent Reznor from NIN. Mmm. Said hello, exchanged pleasantries and I said to him in the course of conversation (when it was apparent there was an attraction there) "lets skip the small talk and go to my place to f*ck". He was pleasantly surprised and was all about it. We had a FWB situation for a while, and it was great fun all around. One thing that made the difference was picking out someone who looked like just the right edgy type who wouldn't be intimidated by a woman, and who was approachable in that way. I wouldn't say that to just anyone.
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