cjduck Posted April 9, 2019 Posted April 9, 2019 Hi all, My name is Cameron and I'm 18yrs old from Australia. I've been single for about two months after breaking from a toxic two year relationship (hardest thing I've done in my life). I still have a place for my ex-girlfriend in my heart and unfortunately I think it's keeping me from moving on. The only way I feel like I can move on is to occupy my mind and heart with someone else who deserves it. Enter this girl from a local cafe... I have known this girl for literally years but never well. She started working at my favorite cafe that I go to quite often and I want to rekindle a relationship with her and ask her out on a date and obviously date her for a few months. Whenever she sees me she is very enthusiastic and waves at me and openly says hello and comes and talks to me every so often. I went in there with my friends one day and she hardly said a word to me - so make with that what you please. My problem is that I'm a man of action and I want to go make a move - but I'm going to Europe in a few days for two weeks and I don't have time to pay her a visit before I leave. I want to know if I should message her and if i should, how I should do it because I wouldn't say we are friends, we are more like acquaintances. I also wouldn't mind some opinions based on what little info I have provided as to whether it's even worth pursuing this girl. Thanks everyone, Cameron
chillii Posted April 9, 2019 Posted April 9, 2019 Hi . You write well for so young , good for you. But you really don't wanna go giving your name or details in a forum. Anyway , personally , l'd drop it for now and go on your trip , clear your head, see how you feel later. Although some might disagree imo your really best to take some time after that break up first, anyone is, live you for awhile , get over things and everything back in it's right place.
smackie9 Posted April 9, 2019 Posted April 9, 2019 Don't say a word yet. Go on your trip, and let off some steam. This girl is worth pursuing BUT not at this time. We have seen it many times, people committing to a relationship too soon with their ex taking up too much space in their head and emotions. That wouldn't be fair to her or any girl right?
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