illi Posted April 8, 2019 Posted April 8, 2019 hi guys. first of all thank you for reading this. well, i don't know how to start, i just wanna begin.. i have a new relationship right now. it happened so fast, i didn't realize i have a boyfriend. before that relationship i had a 3 year LDR. it ended badly and ugly. i have to compere them right now bec. i am so confused. before that, i always tell my ex where am i, what i am doin, call him "love, honey, my baby etc", and he were doing that too. i am so get used to hear or do that. now, my new bf is opposite of my ex. btw dont say that my new bf is my plaster bec i know i wanna be with him. i like him a lot. i am not searching my ex on my new bf. i just wanna make things clear. but i dont know what should i expect or what should i do? i also have problems being a "person". i mean being singular. i always wait my ex at home, for skype, i spent most of time to do that. now i am kinda in a space now i wanna be with my bf a lot. i feel so sticky, you know, it makes me bother. my new bf is so realistic. he wouldnt say "love" to me. i always see a problem. my ex has always with problems. i wanna be casual i wanna be relax, feel safe, not in a bother. my 3 years was waste of time, i have law self- confidence, so so so confused what is your idea?
kendahke Posted April 9, 2019 Posted April 9, 2019 Generally speaking, whenever someone says they're confused, it's because of unresolved feelings for someone else who hasn't given them the green light to go ahead. In your case, it has happened and it happened faster than expected and you find yourself in a new relationship. How long ago did you and your ex break up?
alphamale Posted April 9, 2019 Posted April 9, 2019 i feel so sticky, why? is it humid where you're at? 1
mightybop Posted April 9, 2019 Posted April 9, 2019 why? is it humid where you're at? I'm guessing she means clingy.
SunShineAngels Posted April 9, 2019 Posted April 9, 2019 I think it's better to create your core-confidence in you, then you can be happy by yourselves but not being clingy relate your happiness on somebody else. I reccomend you tube channel Matthew Hussey which I watch it a lot and it really helps ladies for a healthy relationship.
chillii Posted April 9, 2019 Posted April 9, 2019 why? is it humid where you're at? Shirley you can't be serious
BaileyB Posted April 10, 2019 Posted April 10, 2019 illi, are you still in school? Do you have anyone you can talk with, to get some counselling? I think that would really help you... I would also encourage you not to date for a while. You seem like the kind of person who always needs to have someone in your life. What you need to learn, is how to stand on your own. True happiness comes from within. When you are happy and confident, you will have healthy relationships...
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