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What does it mean when a Man gives you a tour of his place the first time we met?

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What does it mean when a Man gives you a tour of his place the first time we met?

 

Some people just take a lot of pride in their homes.

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He wants you to jump his bones in the bedroom.

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It means he was hoping you would have asked for a personal & naked inspection of his bed.

 

Going to someone's home when you 1st meet them is dangerous & unwise.

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It could mean a lot of things.

 

Perhaps he wanted to get you in bed when he reached that part of the "tour."

 

Maybe he's put a lot of work into fixing the place up and wants to show it off.

 

Or possibly he wanted to get you in there and assault you where nobody would know.

 

Who is this person to you, OP? Please say it's not the guy with the girlfriend you were writing about in your other thread.

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It could mean a lot of things.

 

Perhaps he wanted to get you in bed when he reached that part of the "tour."

 

Maybe he's put a lot of work into fixing the place up and wants to show it off.

 

Or possibly he wanted to get you in there and assault you where nobody would know.

 

Who is this person to you, OP? Please say it's not the guy with the girlfriend you were writing about in your other thread.

 

 

No its not the guy. Its a new guy I met. He took me to dinner and after we went over his place and he showed me his home and we talked and made out. No sex.

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The tour mind you happened after we made out.

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Yikes. You got lucky. You had no idea what was waiting for you at his home. Since the tour was after the making out he was totally hoping the tour would result in you getting into his bed. Understand any time an early date wants you to come over or wants to come to your place that person is looking for sex.

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I live in Southern California and in my circles it's pretty common for people to give tour of the home to visitors of both genders. There were times when I was slow to offer and the visitor asked for tour.

 

As for dating, online or irl, all the men gave me a tour which I appreciate. It tells you a lot about the person, his priorities, how he lives. And I'm nosy. Really I cannot think of a single man I dated who did not give me a tour on my first visit. He would just show the layout of the house and yard, and how many rooms but no need to enter each room/bedroom (unless it's a 1-bedroom). It's just being a gracious host, imo.

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What does it mean when a Man gives you a tour of his place the first time we met?

 

 

It doesn't really mean anything. What's important is that going to a strange man's home the first time you meet them, means you aren't focusing on your safety and using your head. Not a smart thing to do.

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It means he was expecting sex.

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No its not the guy. Its a new guy I met. He took me to dinner and after we went over his place and he showed me his home and we talked and made out. No sex.

 

Was this the first time you'd met him face-to-face?

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Was this the first time you'd met him face-to-face?

 

No second time

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It doesn't really mean anything. What's important is that going to a strange man's home the first time you meet them, means you aren't focusing on your safety and using your head. Not a smart thing to do.

 

Not the first time I met him and this happened after I was already in his bedroom making out

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What does it mean when a Man gives you a tour of his place the first time we met?

 

it means he is proud of his humble abode and wants you to see it

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Seriously, I have no problem with sex right away, but it's really risky to go to a guy's home that soon.

 

That said, he's just showing you his home, simple enough. It's not loaded with meaning other than he either wanted to have sex bad enough to bring you over there on the first date or liked you enough and also wanted sex with you bad enough to bring you over on the first date and show you his home.

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What does it mean when a Man gives you a tour of his place the first time we met?

 

He has really nice manners?

 

He wanted some interior design advice?

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