georgiagirl76 Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 I think a good rule of thumb to keep in mind when you are fighting the urge to contact the ex. NEVER say anything in a text, im or email that you wouldn't feel comfortable saying to their face. Since we live in a world of new technology it is easy for us to hide behind our computers, cell phones, or pda devices and pour our hearts out to our exs in hopes that they will give us some type of reply. Don't do it- remember they are most likely thinking of you maybe not in the way you would like. They are sometimes expecting you to call or contact. Do the unexpected- that is more likely to peak their interest than not. And if you are wondering I am going on 11 days of NC with my ex who asked for space so I am not just being insensitive as if I don't know what it is like. Be Strong.
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