Mark07 Posted April 5, 2019 Posted April 5, 2019 (edited) What do you think about keeping dates short? I believe in ending a date while it is still on a high note and before my instinct tells me to end it. Somebody has to end the date first. Either the man or the woman. I would rather end it right when a woman begins to get more flirty and touchy. That takes guts but I have done it before. Most men don't have the strength to end a date first with a pretty woman. It is counterintuitive as we think that if she is enjoying herself then we better extend the date as long as we can. We don't have to leave it up to her to end the date just because she is pretty. How do I manage to pull this off? Simple. I masturbate 2 hours before the date so all that sexual tension is released and I won't be hungry for sex if she starts trying to make out with me. My sexual hunger won't be back for another 10-12 hours. Edited April 5, 2019 by Mark07
preraph Posted April 5, 2019 Posted April 5, 2019 I think some forewarning should be in place on dates when they're made. Especially in the beginning. Like, Can we go at 7? Because I'm going to need to be home by about 11.
Blanco Posted April 5, 2019 Posted April 5, 2019 I think it's a good move, so long as you're not cutting it noticeably short, otherwise you risk them thinking you're just not interested. When I'm spending time with someone I'm really interested in, it's really tough to pull the plug on the night, but sometimes, it's best to do so, especially early on. You wanna leave wanting more and, hopefully, leave them wanting more, too.
Ruby Slippers Posted April 5, 2019 Posted April 5, 2019 My best dates where we have awesome chemistry are hours long but feel like minutes. On my last great first date, we had sparkling conversation for an hour before we even opened the menu... then ended the night with 2 hours of kissing in his car that felt like 10 minutes. Personally, I see no reason to cut a good time short.
Happy Lemming Posted April 5, 2019 Posted April 5, 2019 I had one first date that lasted for 3 days (over a 3 day weekend). We went to a sushi restaurant on a Friday night, then back to her place and stayed there. On Monday afternoon, I told her I needed to go home and I would be back. I made up the excuse that I needed a fresh pair of underwear, she said "Why, you haven't been wearing them..." Another fun one... Ah. memories... I think first dates just kind of end organically. The activity came to a conclusion or you've had enough to drink or the bar closes. Again, that is... unless you end up sleeping together.
Author Mark07 Posted April 5, 2019 Author Posted April 5, 2019 OP, what is the object of this exercise? It is called being a challenge, which is something not talked about often on this forum. Everyone talks about confidence but not as much about challenge. Confidence is overrated.
Simple Logic Posted April 5, 2019 Posted April 5, 2019 OP, what is the object of this exercise? He is afraid of rejection so he creates a condition where his date feels rejected first. He has some crazy idea that makes him come off as an alpha male women cannot resist. 3
Wallysbears Posted April 5, 2019 Posted April 5, 2019 My last first date was with my husband. We intended to meet for tapas and drinks at this awesome little place not far from my house. (He drove an hour to meet me) We wound up closing the tapas joint and closing the pub down the street. Then we both went home to our respective homes and had another date 2 days later...that he planned that night while we were out on our 1st. Third date he cooked me an awesome meal at his house. (First time I went to his area...first two dates he came to me) The concept of ending a date that is going great seems odd. Where are you getting that advice?
Author Mark07 Posted April 5, 2019 Author Posted April 5, 2019 My last first date was with my husband. We intended to meet for tapas and drinks at this awesome little place not far from my house. (He drove an hour to meet me) We wound up closing the tapas joint and closing the pub down the street. Then we both went home to our respective homes and had another date 2 days later...that he planned that night while we were out on our 1st. Third date he cooked me an awesome meal at his house. (First time I went to his area...first two dates he came to me) The concept of ending a date that is going great seems odd. Where are you getting that advice? Doc Love. He is on a mission from God as the first guy in 6000 years to understand women.
elaine567 Posted April 5, 2019 Posted April 5, 2019 Doc Love. He is on a mission from God as the first guy in 6000 years to understand women. Ah... ________________ 1
Wallysbears Posted April 5, 2019 Posted April 5, 2019 There are about a million men out there running 'dating advice' sites to help other men understand how to approach women or what to do. There are all sorts of different games to play, trains of thought, etc. Have you ever (as men) stopped to think that their true #1 objective is making money and not really helping you?
Author Mark07 Posted April 5, 2019 Author Posted April 5, 2019 There are about a million men out there running 'dating advice' sites to help other men understand how to approach women or what to do. There are all sorts of different games to play, trains of thought, etc. Have you ever (as men) stopped to think that their true #1 objective is making money and not really helping you? Maybe some dating coaches but Doc Love does care about saving men money, time, pain and sanity. His goal is to help cut the divorce rate.
Wallysbears Posted April 5, 2019 Posted April 5, 2019 They all have a "goal". That's part of their marketing.
chillii Posted April 5, 2019 Posted April 5, 2019 (edited) He is afraid of rejection so he creates a condition where his date feels rejected first. He has some craz likely idea that makes him come off as an alpha male women cannot resist. yeah, exactly what l thought . As soon as a guy starts talking like that round here, or most men don't have the guts or yawn yawn yawn, you can bet he's on that stupid damn alpha bs. Just sounds like more pretense and games to me. Nothin like stumbling in at 4 or 5am after having some fantastic time with someone you've just met , or a few days later. like HL , back in the day l remember all afternoon and most of the night with one lady , 3days with another, 2 with another, my gf now came from 12 hours away and we only planned on a few days but she stayed a month , that was our very first time we met, had a ball. Obviously of you felt it was best to call it a night then it's probably not a bad idea but otherwise why play games . Edited April 5, 2019 by chillii 1
Happy Lemming Posted April 6, 2019 Posted April 6, 2019 like HL , back in the day l remember all afternoon and most of the night with one lady , 3days with another, 2 with another, my gf now came from 12 hours away and we only planned on a few days but she stayed a month , that was our very first time we met, had a ball. Yep... those were the days!! "What a drag it is getting old" - Mick Jagger
Zippy2000 Posted April 8, 2019 Posted April 8, 2019 Dont make it too short though as she might not get a good enough impression of you or worse still she got the WRONG impression thinking your not interested by cutting it short. A date can be from 2 to 4 or more hours depending how things go but have you not heard when couples meet they talk for hours until the restaurant or bars close or is that too much to ask and enjoy your time.
stillafool Posted April 8, 2019 Posted April 8, 2019 OP, I think it's a great idea as it gives the woman a chance to grab a quick dinner with you without worrying about having to put out and she still has time to go out with her girlfriends or someone else. You're probably very popular.
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