foreverfaithful Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 i have been with my boyfriend for 10 months and he has alsways been very attentive, calling me through out the day to say hi or to see how my day was.. for the last week he has barely called maybe once and thats if im lucky.. he is between jobs so i know he is stressed but i cant help to think it is something else.. any advice??
LucreziaBorgia Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 Any other unexplained things going on?
Author foreverfaithful Posted September 21, 2005 Author Posted September 21, 2005 i dunno. its been weird.. i have the feeling that he is looking at porn now which i dont get cause we have a very good sex life.. and he ususally goes ona forum about cars and stuff when i am not around (this pretty much occupies his time) he hasnt been doing that either
JadeStar Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 Hard to say for sure what may or may not be going on. It could be a number of things for why he is distant. Have you asked him if theres anything wrong? Jade
Author foreverfaithful Posted September 21, 2005 Author Posted September 21, 2005 he says its cause he is looking for a job.. but he has been stresses about money since i have known him.. never like this
JadeStar Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 Even if he is stressed about a job, I wouldn't think that would bring him calling you to a halt or even slacking off from calling for that matter. Unless theres something else like the porn taking up his time and his feeling guilty for it, not sure what else to tell you. Jade
Leikela Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 There's more that meets the eye here. It could be a porn addiction or another woman. We really can't predict on here what it might be because the possibilites are endless. Try talking more honestly to him about it. If that doesn't work, then just be more attentive to his behaviors. Eventually the truth will come out.
mental_traveller Posted September 22, 2005 Posted September 22, 2005 It's a definite warning sign, but I wouldn't jump to conclusions just based on that. It depends partly on his explanation - does he give a brief reply and then try to get rid of you (which is a bad sign), or does he understand why you are unhappy about it and just ask you for a bit of patience (good sign, he's probably just stressed in this case)? In a good relationship, when one person has a problem, each will be sympathetic and understanding in trying to sort it out.
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