crazyguy123 Posted April 4, 2019 Posted April 4, 2019 So last year, my friends tried to set me up with one of their friends. She's really pretty and career oriented. I've tried to ask her out multiple times and none of it went through. I left it alone and went on with life. Those same friends are having an upcoming baby shower and she will be there. kinda nervous about it because i feel it'll be awkward especially with the amount of times she turned me down. what do i do and how do i deal with it?
BJP1991 Posted April 4, 2019 Posted April 4, 2019 So last year, my friends tried to set me up with one of their friends. She's really pretty and career oriented. I've tried to ask her out multiple times and none of it went through. I left it alone and went on with life. Those same friends are having an upcoming baby shower and she will be there. kinda nervous about it because i feel it'll be awkward especially with the amount of times she turned me down. what do i do and how do i deal with it? Be yourself and be confident. Have a good time, enjoy yourself. Have an abundance mindset and things like this won’t bother you at all. Be friendly, talk to people freely and don’t act shy or closed off. If you end up talking to her, smile and ask her how her spring is going or something generic like that. Just don’t make it a big deal and it won’t be a big deal. If you’ve moved on and are looking for other women to date, then this girl shouldn’t phase you. 1
emeraldgreen Posted April 4, 2019 Posted April 4, 2019 When you worry about other people, you give them your power and confidence. Take them back and walk into that room with your dignity intact, be outgoing and, in the future, don't ask the same person out multiple times.
preraph Posted April 4, 2019 Posted April 4, 2019 Obviously, you don't ask her out again after so many rejections. So all you have to do is say hi to her like you will everyone else in the room and then ignore her the rest of the time.
Blind-Sided Posted April 5, 2019 Posted April 5, 2019 It shouldn't be weird at all. As others have said... be yourself, and this girl can see you in a social situation. If it feels right, you can make small talk with her, and who knows... it could lead to something. BUT... do not expect anything, and you won't be nervous. I can tell you... in my younger years... when I was looking... I would never find. When I was just "There"... that's when I would find a spark.
d0nnivain Posted April 5, 2019 Posted April 5, 2019 You deal with it by ignoring it in the sense that you act like you never asked her out & she's just a friend of a friend. You say hello & be polite but basically pay no attention to her. Small tight smile; curt not of the head. She's irrelevant in your life other then you need to be aware of her existence so you don't walk into her like you would avoid walking into the coffee table. Really, she has no more importance in your life at this point then the furniture in the room. Calm, cool, collected, confident & aloof. You got this.
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