hercules22 Posted April 3, 2019 Posted April 3, 2019 supposed to have date on the friday didn't happen she sent late text saying she was rushed to hospital late at night after i said i guess we are not on tonight when i tried to call in the arvo she said sorry but never said anything about rescheduling date i didn't say anything either just wished her well and stuff i tried calling her after one day passed to check up on her no answer. she seems all good she been putting up stories of herself recent days i tried calling her 4 days after my last call still no answer. should i just wait now for her to get back to me or just forget it i find it wierd she seemed enthusiastic over the phone when i asked her out now i feel like im being ignored and it feels crap seeing her active on social media
SunShineAngels Posted April 3, 2019 Posted April 3, 2019 I think she's not interested just move on...... 1
smackie9 Posted April 3, 2019 Posted April 3, 2019 Wow she knows you are really hard to shake off using that long excuse. Walk away bud. 2
ChatroomHero Posted April 3, 2019 Posted April 3, 2019 I'm not sure how she could show less interest or blow you off any more. Move on. If she ever reaches out, keep moving on and ignore it. 2
kendahke Posted April 3, 2019 Posted April 3, 2019 supposed to have date on the friday didn't happen she sent late text saying she was rushed to hospital late at night after i said i guess we are not on tonight when i tried to call in the arvo she said sorry but never said anything about rescheduling date i didn't say anything either just wished her well and stuff i tried calling her after one day passed to check up on her no answer. she seems all good she been putting up stories of herself recent days i tried calling her 4 days after my last call still no answer. should i just wait now for her to get back to me or just forget it i find it wierd she seemed enthusiastic over the phone when i asked her out now i feel like im being ignored and it feels crap seeing her active on social media She's not interested. Block her on social since it makes you feel like crap---why punish yourself needlessly? There is no reason for you to check in on her any longer outside of indulging self-loathing. 2
Foxhall Posted April 3, 2019 Posted April 3, 2019 Yes,well I have been there, not exactly the same scenario but plenty of similar ones, the half way rule I think is always a good one, If the other person is not meeting you half way, fxxk them and move on. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted April 4, 2019 Posted April 4, 2019 Yes, write her off, OP. She is really not interested.
Blind-Sided Posted April 4, 2019 Posted April 4, 2019 I don't know why people feel they need to make crazy excesses. I recently had to go to the emergency room, and it was no fun. I was supposed to hook up with a buddy, and I actually sent a pic of me in the gurney. Sure, there could be some truth to the story, but if it's fake... then there is no reason to even want to talk to someone like that again. If someone is going to break a date... I just want the truth. Heck... keeping the truth from me is what is killing my marriage now. TO me, hearing... "I've changed my mind, and I'm not interested" would hurt less then finding out that a crazy lie was fake. 1
Author hercules22 Posted April 5, 2019 Author Posted April 5, 2019 I don't know why people feel they need to make crazy excesses. I recently had to go to the emergency room, and it was no fun. I was supposed to hook up with a buddy, and I actually sent a pic of me in the gurney. Sure, there could be some truth to the story, but if it's fake... then there is no reason to even want to talk to someone like that again. If someone is going to break a date... I just want the truth. Heck... keeping the truth from me is what is killing my marriage now. TO me, hearing... "I've changed my mind, and I'm not interested" would hurt less then finding out that a crazy lie was fake. She sent me photo of the emergency waiting room no idea if it a old photo i didnt even ask for proof either this was on the same night we were supposed to have a date so no idea what to make of that but it does seem like i should move on could be a excuse like others have said above cause she would of contacted me by now if she seems all good by posting stories of herself
d0nnivain Posted April 5, 2019 Posted April 5, 2019 I'm gonna go with the trip to the ER was true. I do give people the benefit of the doubt. But since you know she is fine and she's not responding to your messages, yes, it is best to conclude that she is no longer interested. Delete. Move on. Onward & upward.
Andy_K Posted April 5, 2019 Posted April 5, 2019 The ER trip might be true. But generally speaking, someone who's interested will make an attempt to reschedule if they've had to cancel on you. Also, they won't ignore your phone calls I think you know where this is going. 1
GoldSparkz Posted April 6, 2019 Posted April 6, 2019 Put it this way, if she was right for you, you would never have to question whether or not she's interested. Please remember this.
Author hercules22 Posted April 6, 2019 Author Posted April 6, 2019 wish it was august been thinking i should quit trying to find dates now got holiday coming up i keep meeting flaky girls lately it so much easier when they reject you the first time you try to get there number so frustrating you start talking to someone new they seem interested you organise a date then things dont pan out the way you hope it would
The Outlaw Posted April 7, 2019 Posted April 7, 2019 Easier said than done, because a lot of us have been there, and I'm not trying to sound cold, but brush her off and move on. If she were interested, she'd rescheduled. You've got to do what's best for you. 1
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