Author TUDOR Posted September 21, 2005 Author Posted September 21, 2005 Then that is even MORE cause for concern for wifey, TUDOR. What if she had a childhood friend who was also an ex-lover who was 6'2", good looking with lots of muscles and a great job as a pediatrician. I'm sure you'd be threatened by him. Not if she had told me that from experience with him his dick was only 4 inches hard and sucked in bed. That is the equilavent of how bad the ex is in bed which I have relayed to the wife. But yes a man I didn't know anything about with that description hanging out with my wife, I woudln't like it. Besides I am 6'2", fairly well built and make six figures so that kind of thing doesn't threaten me too much.
Woggle Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 You ever meet somebody and feel like you have known them your whole life within the first 5 minutes of talking to them? QUOTE] Yes.. 5 minutes after that it turned out I really had known him my whole life... then I remembered what a Dick he is and I was really happy I didn't spend 5 more minutes talking to him :lmao: Seriously.. yes of course people often feel an instant connection... and I'm happy for you that it seems you've met someone you're crazy about... The part about the BOTH of you hating Women and thats your connection though... well... :lmao: somehow I just can't see your story on say Lifetimes the wedding story... sitting there on the sofa... looking into the camera and saying "I knew within 5 minutes she too hated Women... *sigh* Love that Girl of mine" It was kind of toungue in cheek but she relates to men well and she undertsnads us. I think that is why we get along so well. She doesn't seem to have the issues that many women have.
JS17 Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 Not if she had told me that from experience with him his dick was only 4 inches hard and sucked in bed. That is the equilavent of how bad the ex is in bed which I have relayed to the wife. But yes a man I didn't know anything about with that description hanging out with my wife, I woudln't like it. Besides I am 6'2", faily well built and make six figures so that kind of thing doesn't threaten me too much. If you're both secure in your relationship then don't worry about it. She would tell you if it really made her uncomfortable. It's not like you're hanging out with her every day, it's just once in a while. I'm sure your wife is fine with it.
alphamale Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 Besides I am 6'2", faily well built and make six figures so that kind of thing doesn't threaten me too much. Wow! Maybe you should start using my screen name of ALPHAMALE and I'll change mine to WIMPY_GUY
Art_Critic Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 She doesn't seem to have the issues that many women have. Now that is a loaded statement.. She has issues .. One of them is she doesn't like women and relates to men.. You haven't seen the issues yet because if she is like you say and she is like a guy then she hasn't shown you her real true self yet.. One day it will all add up and BOOM .. You will be on here talking smack about her
Author TUDOR Posted September 21, 2005 Author Posted September 21, 2005 Wow! Maybe you should start using my screen name of ALPHAMALE and I'll change mine to WIMPY_GUY oh no, I could never live up to the ALPHAMALE title to the extent that you do! That is your title and rightfully so, altough I still think the The Don is appropriate for you too!
Scott S Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 LOL Hey Scott! You'd think after 10 months he would be all set uh? Yes, you might think. On the other hand, Gina & I are going on 10 years, & we still have occasional moments.
Merin Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 Wow! Maybe you should start using my screen name of ALPHAMALE and I'll change mine to WIMPY_GUY :lmao:
Woggle Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 Now that is a loaded statement.. She has issues dude.. One of them is she doesn't like women and relates to men.. You haven't seen the issues yet because if she is like you say and she is like a guy then she hasn't shown you her real true self yet.. One day it will all add up and BOOM .. You will be on here talking smack about her What is so wrong with a woman relating to men? She doesn;t have any kids Doesn't take any mood stabilizing drugs Gets along with her exes Doesn't hate men Gets along well with her family and friends What's not to like?
JS17 Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 Listen Art, If Woggle wants to date a Man with a p@ssy then let him. They both have some serious issues, maybe this is a good match.
Art_Critic Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 What is so wrong with a woman relating to men? She doesn;t have any kids Doesn't take any mood stabilizing drugs Gets along with her exes Doesn't hate men Gets along well with her family and friends What's not to like? You don't seem to be able to relate to women.. Get it yet.. The opposite sex can never relate to the other party. So if she can relate to men than that is a red flag.. The other stuff you mentioned is great.. and is all likeable stuff You seem to have some rose colored glasses on though when you view her..
Art_Critic Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 Listen Art, If Woggle wants to date a Man with a p@ssy then let him. They both have some serious issues, maybe this is a good match. :lmao:
Woggle Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 Listen Art, If Woggle wants to date a Man with a p@ssy then let him. They both have some serious issues, maybe this is a good match. You don't even know her and have yet to even communicate with her. How would you know? One look at her and it is clear she is all woman.
Woggle Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 You don't seem to be able to relate to women.. Get it yet.. The opposite sex can never relate to the other party. So if she can relate to men than that is a red flag.. The other stuff you mentioned is great.. and is all likeable stuff You seem to have some rose colored glasses on though when you view her.. So relating to the opposite sex is a bad thing? I know she is not perfect but she is honest about her imperfections which I respect.
Art_Critic Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 I know she is not perfect but she is honest about her imperfections which I respect. This is why you guys are most likely together.. and this is good.. But no she can't relate to a man because she is a woman. Just like we cannot relate to what it must be like to carry a child they also cannot relate to what it is like to be a man. Sorry Tudor.. I'm off your thread now
Woggle Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 This is why you guys are most likely together.. and this is good.. But no she can't relate to a man because she is a woman. Sorry Tudor.. I'm off your thread now She can't fully relate but she gets along very well with men. I feel comfortable having her hang with the guys.
JS17 Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 You don't even know her and have yet to even communicate with her. How would you know? Funny coming from someone who says: I play my ex wife's messages begging me to take her back for my girlfriend and we both have a good laugh. My girlfriend knows my ex wife is pathetic but my ex is crushed that I have found somebody else. And anyone who truly hates an entire sex has got issues...yes, that includes you. Sorry to hijack your thread Tudor.
Woggle Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 Funny coming from someone who says: And anyone who truly hates an entire sex has got issues...yes, that includes you. Sorry to hijack your thread Tudor. So thinking my ex wife is pathetic means I hate an entire sex. I have always said there are exceptions when it comes to women.
RecordProducer Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 Okay, kids, back to the original topic. Wherever Woggle shows up, everything starts turning around his hatred towards women and his new relationship. Haven't seen such an attention whore in a long time! And he attracts the attention by stating all kinds of things that get people going. I can't believe you still bite the bait he throws. Tudor, you love this woman as a friend and you're attracted to her. So she is beautiful, smart, charming, etc. and your wife might indeed feel threatened by her. It doesn't mean she is, but make sure you skip telling her how great and cute your ex is and also don't forget to tell your wife that she is the most beautiful woman in the whole world! My BF and I watched some commercial last night and there was a baby and a woman in it. I said "The baby is soooo cute!" and he said: "They are both cute!" It hurt me very much that he was making comments about this woman who was probably a 17-year old model. I said: "She has no tits and ass... they want to present mothers in commercials as 17-year old happy and fresh, all made up and dressed up in fancy saten dresses..." Yes, I was jealous because I don't need to hear about another woman how cute she is!! Maybe I should tell him "There's a guy named Tudor on LS... and also Blackfrost.. and Art-Critic... and Alpha... and Soccorsilly... Gosh, they are really cute!" Whooooh... that made me feel better.
Trimmer Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 So, ahem, gently bringing the discussion back arount to TUDOR's point... ... men do think of women sexually admittedly so or not... I'll frankly admit to this, but ... eventually curiosity will get the better of them ...I don't agree that every man is wired this way, and I don't believe I am. In 18 years of monogamy now, and with a history before that of cherishing close, intimate relationships with women, I have not yet let my respect for my own marriage, or for another woman's marriage dip so low as to take any action that would bring me close to crossing the line. Understand your feelings, and control your actions. Now, I know never say never, but that's what I believe about myself. I think, Tudor, it's a matter of knowing yourself, and being honest with yourself and your wife. Your best protection against the slippery slope is an ability to be honest with youself about your feelings (or appropriate lack thereof) about your old friend. Your best protection of your wife's feelings is to be honest with her and respectful of her. If these are your priorities, then good for you, you're able to keep a friend that you value in your life, and even share that friendship with your wife. It's hard to pathologize that. If, like alphamale, you look at yourself honestly and say "The only time [ I ] should be "friends" with a woman is when [ I am ] romantically involved...", then again, bravo for you - based on an honest appraisal of yourself, you are doing what it takes for you to protect your relationship. Know thyself...
Woggle Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 I have stuck to the topic at hand. It just so appens that I am an interesting man.
RecordProducer Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 I have stuck to the topic at hand. It just so appens that I am an interesting man. Clowns are always interesting.
Woggle Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 Clowns are always interesting. I actually give the best advice on this forum.
Mz. Pixie Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 I find it a little upsetting that she's listening to these conversations and laughing at your ex crying. Even if your ex is a low down whatever other peoples misery is not funny- and it strikes me as more her trying to "pump" you up or be on your side all the way that she does this.... but anyway- My husband has two friends that are women from college. They've been together through thick and thin, both beautiful intelligent women, both single but there has never been a romantic entanglement with either. I have no problem with them phoning on occasion. The one time we had dinner with one I was invited along so I can understand what you're saying. Now, random women like the one who IM's him the other night saying "Are you married yet?" or the one who caused a scene in a bar- ummm no, I wouldn't like him going to dinner with either one of them and if he did there would be some issues. We women know instinctively when a woman is trying to push up on our man and we will dislike that woman. At least that's been my experience.
alphamale Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 If, like alphamale, you look at yourself honestly and say "The only time [ I ] should be "friends" with a woman is when [ I am ] romantically involved...", then again, bravo for you - based on an honest appraisal of yourself, you are doing what it takes for you to protect your relationship. Know thyself... Interesting POV, TRIMMER....i'll have to take it under advisement.
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