Saidar Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 I got a question... How do you ask a girl out ?? I'm new to dating people, haven't dated someone before, and I met this lovely girl who I'm in love with, and ithink she likes me too. But how do I ask her out ??
alphamale Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 But how do I ask her out ?? "would you like to go out for dinner this coming Sat nite with me?"
Jayhawks Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 who I'm in love with You're already in love with her? Please don't let her know this as it will spell doom to any possible relationship. If you declare your undying love she will think you are a psycho. I would recommend a group date your first time. You will be more comfortable and so will she. Hang out with some friends together and see how things go. If you get along then you can ask her for a date alone.
Author Saidar Posted September 21, 2005 Author Posted September 21, 2005 I'm in a difficult situation here. The "Group" thing already happened. She's actually in my group where I sit at during school breaks. We always see each other at house parties etc. I know she likes me, but I don't know how to approach this situation, because our "friends group" always knows about everything of what's going on. So I don't want to make a fool out of myself and enter a bad relationship with the rest of my friends. I really need some advice, 'cause I got competition. There's another guy who also likes her, and he's one step ahead of me, cause he's not in our group, and already asked her out causally a few times. I know she doesn't like him that much, and is only "semi-dating" him for now. She always shows her interest in me by touching me and standing next to me each brake etc... But I'm SO scared I'm going to make a fool out of myself in front of everyone. So please, how do I control this situation ??
Nur Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 Well, if you don't work up some guts and ask, you'll never know, will you? I don't think she's giving you strong hints like that for nothing. If she looks shocked or uneasy when you ask her, just make light of it and tell her to forget it. If she is a true friend, she will be flattered and she won't rip your head off for expressing that you find her attractive. So not much to lose, really, but a bit of pride. And even that is temporary.
UCFKevin Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 You're not in love, you're in lust. You can't be in love with someone you don't know very well. Just keep it simple. "Would you like to go out sometime?" That's all it takes.
HokeyReligions Posted September 22, 2005 Posted September 22, 2005 I got a question... How do you ask a girl out ?? Open your mouth and ask. Its normal to be embarassed but you won't be foolish. Just ASK her! What's the worst thing that could happen? She could say No Thanks and you can just say OK, thought I'd ask and move on.
fusangite Posted September 22, 2005 Posted September 22, 2005 So I don't want to make a fool out of myselfThat's the problem in a nutshell. This is the first time you're going to ask a girl out: you are probably going to make a fool out of yourself. That's why you feel as strongly as you do -- if you're really in love with this girl, you will like her enough that you're prepared to publicly humiliate yourself in order to get a date with her. Generally, because dating is so socially awkward, you should probably only date women you like enough to risk humiliation -- because asking the girl out is only the first of literally dozens of opportunities to humiliate yourself in the dating process. Good luck. Come up with a thing you want to invite her to do. Then walk up to her, sweat, stutter, stammer and blurt out your invitation. That's how you ask a girl out for the first time.
questionsforyall Posted September 23, 2005 Posted September 23, 2005 first learn to laugh at yourself , like go oh man i got ten toes, hahahahahaha im so normal. then realize that everyone alive has to go , i asked that girl out, hahahahaha , then i got rejected, hahahahaha, or if you want some practice go up to some hot older babe and ask her if shes a cougar that experience alone will prepare you for what you may have to deal with in your situation or think about how ****ty youd feel if the other guy started dating her and you had to watch. what would u do clam up and stop talking to all those friends of yours?
ButtonPusher Posted September 23, 2005 Posted September 23, 2005 "You're hot. Would you like to procreate with me?" Thats all you have to do:)
young dirty Posted September 28, 2005 Posted September 28, 2005 hey i got the same problem!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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