Fleiss Posted March 26, 2019 Posted March 26, 2019 (edited) I was chatting with this guy yesterday, and he said he was free at 21:30. Then added that he didn't know when his business meeting/dinner would end. Still, he would let me know right away. He vanished. This morning, 4 hours ago, he says "hi" and asks if I am horny. I told him there was no point in meeting up. He said he was sorry. Later he said he said he didn't want to make me feel angry, stating also that he did nothing wrong. I told him I wasn't angry at all but it was stupid of him to contact me. End of chatting. Right after I thought to myself I was stupid too in responding to him. And somehow I was aggressive at him. Should I apologize to him now? Thanks. (P.S. We're both males: 37 & him 39) Edited March 26, 2019 by Fleiss Addition
Kelliousme Posted March 26, 2019 Posted March 26, 2019 Why should you apologize? He told you he would tell you right away when he finds out.. but instead vanishes. And the first thing he says isn't sorry but he asks you if you're horny? You are absolutely right that there's no point in meeting him. Don't apologize, run! lol 1
Harcel Posted March 26, 2019 Posted March 26, 2019 No apology and no more contact. Unless you are ok with a quick F**k. 1
Author Fleiss Posted March 26, 2019 Author Posted March 26, 2019 Thanks both of you for the considerate responses, which made me feel much better..
Author Fleiss Posted March 26, 2019 Author Posted March 26, 2019 No apology and no more contact. Unless you are ok with a quick F**k. I wanted to have a quickie too - we're both abroad in this city - but he was inconsistent/unreliable..
Harcel Posted March 26, 2019 Posted March 26, 2019 I wanted to have a quickie too - we're both abroad in this city - but he was inconsistent/unreliable.. I don’t know what you feel the need to apologise for? If you’re still willing to hook up just reach out and say you’re happy to meet him but you need a reliable time and place because your schedule is tight and you don’t want to be waiting up all night for him.
Author Fleiss Posted March 26, 2019 Author Posted March 26, 2019 I don’t know what you feel the need to apologise for? If you’re still willing to hook up just reach out and say you’re happy to meet him but you need a reliable time and place because your schedule is tight and you don’t want to be waiting up all night for him. I guess, having sex with him doesn't make sense now.
kendahke Posted March 26, 2019 Posted March 26, 2019 I was chatting with this guy yesterday, and he said he was free at 21:30. Then added that he didn't know when his business meeting/dinner would end. Still, he would let me know right away. He vanished. This morning, 4 hours ago, he says "hi" and asks if I am horny. I told him there was no point in meeting up. He said he was sorry. Later he said he said he didn't want to make me feel angry, stating also that he did nothing wrong. I told him I wasn't angry at all but it was stupid of him to contact me. End of chatting. Right after I thought to myself I was stupid too in responding to him. And somehow I was aggressive at him. Should I apologize to him now? Thanks. (P.S. We're both males: 37 & him 39) No. Why, unless you're just DTF? He blew you off last night then popped up first thing this morning looking for sex. That would turn me into ice. 1
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