bmh Posted March 26, 2019 Posted March 26, 2019 It sounds like he was somewhat honest about it. Or at least giving clues. If you want more than yes, I’d say end it before it gets to that point.
Author frus69 Posted March 26, 2019 Author Posted March 26, 2019 I was pretty happy that he's told his friends and colleges about me, but I suppose that doesnt change the fact that this is fwb
greymatter Posted March 27, 2019 Posted March 27, 2019 I was pretty happy that he's told his friends and colleges about me, but I suppose that doesnt change the fact that this is fwb That's gross if he is telling his friends and colleagues about you in the context of him getting laid yet again. 2
Author frus69 Posted March 27, 2019 Author Posted March 27, 2019 That's gross if he is telling his friends and colleagues about you in the context of him getting laid yet again. i dont know why you interpreted it like that. He was just telling them he was going to see me/he is seeing a girl named xxx. He admitted his guy friends asked him "oh so have you guys had sex" and he'd say yes.
Versacehottie Posted March 27, 2019 Posted March 27, 2019 I was pretty happy that he's told his friends and colleges about me, but I suppose that doesnt change the fact that this is fwb Idk, why are you satisfied with so little? That's kinda humiliating IMO. Consolation prize stuff. So it's ok that he doesn't see you as relationship worthy or isn't showing you effort and you'll take 2nd best as "well he admitted to others that you exist"???? I know i'm going off a few stereotypes here and you've already said yourself that you don't see HIM as relationship material. I wonder if you also feel like some of his shine transfers to you and your lucky to have interacted with someone so good-looking even if what he's shown you is less than great, no effort?? While you may want nothing with him, i think you should work on this type of thinking. It's gonna lead you the wrong way. 2
Author frus69 Posted March 27, 2019 Author Posted March 27, 2019 Idk, why are you satisfied with so little? That's kinda humiliating IMO. Consolation prize stuff. So it's ok that he doesn't see you as relationship worthy or isn't showing you effort and you'll take 2nd best as "well he admitted to others that you exist"???? I know i'm going off a few stereotypes here and you've already said yourself that you don't see HIM as relationship material. I wonder if you also feel like some of his shine transfers to you and your lucky to have interacted with someone so good-looking even if what he's shown you is less than great, no effort?? While you may want nothing with him, i think you should work on this type of thinking. It's gonna lead you the wrong way. .Should I want him to keep me as a secret? No I really would rather him telling people that he is seeing me. Why is it humiliating? Im happy he did that, yeah, but that doesnt mean I want to marry him now? and the second paragraph I dont really understand what you are trying to say to be honest..what type of thinking is that? I was just thinking of a way to not get messy down the road but I honestly dont know why you think this is already so bad.
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