newyorker3475 Posted March 24, 2019 Posted March 24, 2019 There is a guy I know through coed recreational soccer at my college and we have played together for about a year. He added me on instagram a few months ago. We used to be very shy around each other but not with our other teammates. But now that we feel more comfortable with each other (past 6 months or so), he will come up to me to initiate conversations with me and talk to me a lot about soccer or just life in general during our games. Lately, he has been teasing/picking on me in a lighthearted way just to give me a hard time, not in a mean way. The past few weeks, I have really started to notice how much he teases/jokes with me to where my friend mentioned it too. He doesn't act like this with any of the other girls on the team. When we talk, he looks directly into my eyes and he always listens to what I say. I know he was dating someone this past summer but I'm not sure of his status now. Do guys do this with women they just consider a friend?
preraph Posted March 24, 2019 Posted March 24, 2019 Ask him. Say, you still dating that same girl? Open up that conversation. As a friend, you are entitled to ask nosy questions! 1
smackie9 Posted March 24, 2019 Posted March 24, 2019 There is a guy I know through coed recreational soccer at my college and we have played together for about a year. He added me on instagram a few months ago. We used to be very shy around each other but not with our other teammates. But now that we feel more comfortable with each other (past 6 months or so), he will come up to me to initiate conversations with me and talk to me a lot about soccer or just life in general during our games. Lately, he has been teasing/picking on me in a lighthearted way just to give me a hard time, not in a mean way. The past few weeks, I have really started to notice how much he teases/jokes with me to where my friend mentioned it too. He doesn't act like this with any of the other girls on the team. When we talk, he looks directly into my eyes and he always listens to what I say. I know he was dating someone this past summer but I'm not sure of his status now. Do guys do this with women they just consider a friend? He's flirting with you. Most guys don't flirt for no reason and don't invest a lot of their energy unless they like someone. He likes you, especially when your friend sees it too. I think he's being pretty obvious. Flirt back because he's looking for signals of interest from you. BTW the light teasing is the right kind of flirting...he sounds like a nice guy. 2
metalbabble Posted March 26, 2019 Posted March 26, 2019 There is definitely a level of interest there. You have to reciprocate to find out. 1
Inspire Posted March 26, 2019 Posted March 26, 2019 Definitely sounds like something ... Give it some time to brew and see if something comes up that gives you some indicator or best case scenario he gets direct. 1
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