teachertalk21 Posted March 18, 2019 Posted March 18, 2019 I moved back from Spain to England a year and a half ago. I had started a relationship in Spain and we fell in love. We tried long distance for a couple of months, but I called time on the relationship as I felt long distance wasn’t working for me. Nevertheless the breakup was amicable and we decided to stay friends. We agreed to not speak to allow each other to move on. We didn’t really speak for about a year and during that time I met someone else. It’s going really well and things are getting serious. However, my ex started messaging me again. Since we ended on amicable terms, I didn’t have any issue with this. I was friendly without trying to drag the conversation out and I was quite open about it with my girlfriend who seems unbothered However, she’s messaging me with increasing regularity. I’d say at least every week and it’s making me feel a little uncomfortable. Should I say anything?
TheFinalWord Posted March 18, 2019 Posted March 18, 2019 I always think honesty is the best policy. Break it to her that you are in another relationship and that there is no chance for anything more. If that doesn't work, you'll have to block. Otherwise you risk sabotaging what you have now. 1
d0nnivain Posted March 18, 2019 Posted March 18, 2019 Do tell her you found new love. That should make her go away. Also tell your new So that she's messaging. That person may want you to block the EX 1
preraph Posted March 19, 2019 Posted March 19, 2019 Yes, you need to tell her you have a new woman in your life and that you don't want to risk making her feel you're not focused on her, because you are. And besides, that was the agreement and she broke it.
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