babygirl21 Posted September 20, 2005 Posted September 20, 2005 Hi all I am not sure if this is the right spot or not but here goes. I got this guy I work with.The first time I talked to him he came up and hit me on the arm.I thought nothing of it at first.Then oneday I had called him upfront to help a customer but instead of helping the customer he comes to me and asked what I wanted.he got really close to me,so close that I could have rubbed up against him just if i moved an inch.I almost did rub up against him while I was trying to help a customer.I finally said excuse me and he moved but acted as if he really didn't wanna move.And he does this everytime he gets around me.When he does this I get this really strong vibe.he'll look into my eyes when we talk.He'll stare at me and when I look up and see him staring at me he'll just smile at me.So then I started thinking something was up and maybe there could be something there.Then I find out hes married.But I never knew he was cause he wears no rings on his fingers.So guys any comments are welcome.And advice is needed and much appreciated.So tell me is this guy looking for an affair or not?
Skeered Posted September 20, 2005 Posted September 20, 2005 If he was looking for an affair would you take him up on the offer? Just curious. But I think if you are getting these vibes it's totally inappropriate for a work place and a married man and I think you should tell him you don't feel comfortable with this kind of behavior.
cherrie498 Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 I recommend reading through some of the post here, a MM is the LAST person you want to get involved with....TRUST ME!!!!
newbby Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 Agreed! Just let it be a small ego boost and leave it at that!
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