almostthere Posted September 20, 2005 Posted September 20, 2005 Ok...I have to be short here. Been dating BF for 2 weeks. Known him for 5 months. I am his first GF since his divorce from his XW in a year. They have 3 children together. I am divorced with 2. Since me and him become official his xw is stopping by his house to argue for a few hours with him. She wants him back. She cheated he doesnt want her back. I have had to leave once because she was coming by to argue and our date was interrupted because she was banging on the front door then she left and he went over to her house while I waited at his house like a dumb a** for him to come back for 2 hours. She says I cant be around their children or in my BFs house while the children are there. As I mentioned I have two young children of my own and we have done things with my BF several times in 5 months but I still cant be around his kids. As far as my kids know we are just friends. Like i said we have been friends for awhile but only together for 2 weeks. I think he should just ignore her calls, dont let her in his house to yell at him and tell her these are his kids too and if we want our kids to meet and have new friends then so be it. But it's too soon for me to voice this isnt it? I dont usually complain about anything so I am put in an akward place here. I feel I should stand up for myself or just walk away now and let it be known why I am. Opinions? Advice?
mixwell Posted September 20, 2005 Posted September 20, 2005 I would mention something.. His ex w is just being a bltch because she is jealous.. She really has no say if you are to be at HIS house when the kids are there.. He should tell her to not come by and ignore her arse.. serisosly someone should slap the shiz outta her for being a selfish little brat.. Thats all she is being is a little brat. IF I were him and she came by and started pulling that crap I would tell her to get the hell out of here and don't come back.. That is kind of rude on his part as well to ignore you and give into his ex w.. He should tell her he is busy and refuse to show any attention to her.. If they want to argue then do it when you aren't around. No offense but he should get some balls and tell her to f off when you are around. I would.. Some people are just a pain in the arse because they are selfish and self centered.. sorry you have to experience on of these people... Take care, PEace
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