Trajedi Posted March 12, 2019 Posted March 12, 2019 First, We've been dating 2 months.. We met through a mutual friend and started texting.. It was hot like charcoal and she would send selfies.. Constant texting, which I know is bad, and it was going well.. Kept saying she wanted to show me how to cook, do laundry correctly etc.. As if to ask her out on a date.. Planned a date and when we met up felt as if we met before.. Conversation interaction.. She came to my house and when we sat down she pulled me over and held me.. Also planned on a future event we agree on.. She acted like we were in a relationship after that.. Started to feel fast.. Also, she has a past of bad relationships.. Now, the screw up.. Keeping it short.. One night I had a 'friend' i thought was a friend over.. I was in another room, let him control spotify on my phone.. Guess he went through my phone and texted her trying to put a good word in for me.. Which wasn't needed.. Turned into an argument.. She think's it was me, I don't play these games.. Few day's later I sent to her work some specialty treats we have in my area that are fancy.. Got a texted thanking me and very happy to see them.. It was sent Anon, had a message only me and her would get.. She loved it.. Then radio silence.. I'll do 3 text's max and let it be.. She then sent an apology text saying.. "I'm sorry I've been distant. It's Holy week at church and I've been busy. Camp was good, thank you for asking. Please don't hate me for not responding...Im also getting used to someone truly caring about me...." Still limited text and ignoring.. Sent her ticket's of the event as promised cause they were released.. She was excited and happy i got them, said I need someone to go with, anger came about going with the so called a friend.. after text's exchanged she finished and asked if I could prove myself.. She texted.. "I'm honestly trying to let that happen. You know my history. So I hope u understand where I'm coming from." Let a few day's pass and I texted her an apology Sunday and said I was going to get ready for church.. Texted for advice what to wear she answered.. After Church, few hours later went with a few friends for his B-Day, sent her a pic of it tagged Brunch.. She asked how can you be at brunch and church.. Sent her a book of the pamphlet from Sunday Service.. Her response "I'm sry. It's just that you've allowed seeds of doubt to creep in. It's gonna take a min to recover from that. I let you in...and I don't really do that all that easily." She is sending hints and not sure how to take them.. Being ignorant to what they mean.. Yes it is long.. Had to try and explain the situation..
preraph Posted March 12, 2019 Posted March 12, 2019 All you can do is ask her out on a date and see if she goes and try to keep it chill.
Author Trajedi Posted March 13, 2019 Author Posted March 13, 2019 All you can do is ask her out on a date and see if she goes and try to keep it chill. Was thinking of just keeping it chill and let her do that asking.. Was thinking of texting her in a few more days..
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