athletictommyj Posted September 20, 2005 Posted September 20, 2005 How do I give her the space that she wants and yet she still wants to talk. It is like she is there when she needs me. How do I tell her that maybe the best thing is no communication so that I can get better (also so she can she what she is missing)? Thanks so Much
fundamental Posted September 20, 2005 Posted September 20, 2005 How do I give her the space that she wants and yet she still wants to talk. It is like she is there when she needs me. How do I tell her that maybe the best thing is no communication so that I can get better (also so she can she what she is missing)? Thanks so Much delete her number and her email address... yeah sure you might still know them... but delete them anyway. when she contacts you via phone call or text... believe that you are busy and do not answer and do not return her calls and texts immediately. if you cannot help but pick up the phone or text, let her know that you want space.
lost_in_chgo Posted September 20, 2005 Posted September 20, 2005 How do I give her the space that she wants and yet she still wants to talk. It is like she is there when she needs me. How do I tell her that maybe the best thing is no communication so that I can get better (also so she can she what she is missing)? Thanks so Much You dont tell her, just stop responding. Otherwise she will not see what she is missing, she will see the reason she left. Just stop talking and she might start wondering.
Author athletictommyj Posted September 23, 2005 Author Posted September 23, 2005 she had too much too drink last night and came over, nothing happened and she said she was not coming over for something to happen, why did she come over? Did she feel lonley? I layed next to her and wanted to kiss her so much. She went to the club and some guy asked for her number and she said she did not give it to him because she thought of me, is that good, should I still do the NC, or just tell her that if she wants to see me it will because she wants me back?
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