jchistine Posted September 20, 2005 Posted September 20, 2005 My name is Jamie and me and my boyfriend have been together for about 1 1/2 years. We have a three month old baby boy and I just got a letter in the mail the other day from some girl that I know he had slept with before we were together, stating that she has a little girl and she thinks it is his. She wants him to call her and figure out what they are gonna do. I want him to get a paterity test done and I hope to God that it isn't his. I don't want to be with someone that already has a family. Is that wrong? What should I do if it is his? I love him a lot and want to be with him what not if he has another baby. I cant deal with that much drama. Do you think I am wrong?
Hotdiggitydammit Posted September 20, 2005 Posted September 20, 2005 Is he your BF or recent Ex. More details would be helpful. There was once a situation I was in, but before I left my ex, she had mentioned that she was on her p.
morrigan Posted September 20, 2005 Posted September 20, 2005 The best thing that you can do now is provide a good life for your son and yourself. This is an issue your boyfriend is going to have to deal with legally. Does your boyfriend currently pay any financial support to you for his child? If not, it would be a good idea to see an attorney about trying to get a child visitation/support agreement through the courts. If this little girl is his, would you support your bf having a relationship with his daughter? It wouldn't be fair if only one child has a father and the other child does not. If you don't think you could handle it, I think it's for the best if you ended things with him. If you do break up, try to get along with your ex for the sake of your son. There is no reason he can't be a good father, unless he makes the choice not to be one.
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