Was he faking our relationship?

[janete5]

Marriage-minded guy, 33, met him on dating site we dated for 2 months but so intense felt like 6 months or more. We're both armenian and being virgin is that of traditional girl and I'm a virgin. This guy was "head over heels" for me when we fought(a lot) he always made up. He cried once when I was breaking up with him. Stayed on phone all night with me when I was sick. Knowing i was a virgin he never pressured me to have sex but did suggest oral sex(i did then said I wouldn't again), touching me down ,there asked for me to wear a skirt with no panties when we were going to the beach, sent a photo of his penis which i yelled at him for.

 

Could all tis just been a lie? I felt that he was crazy about me. But after the breakups, and the final break up I did he didn't come back. I started chasing him. Recently I put a photo of my guys cousin then found he had blocked me. When I randomly contacted him after noticing he unblocked me he asked "how the guy I was dating went" I asked who? he said there was a guy and me on whatsapp profile pic. I told him it was my cousin. I said you could've asked not blocked me right away. He denied saying he mightve been out of the country when i texted(i hadn't just his online status wasn't visbile on my phone but was on my moms so he's lying). I said oh you went to armenia to bring a girl? he said bring a girl? no. I asked then why and if he got married he kept saying it was personal. Then said how he's closed our chapter and not longer has feelings for me. I said you keep staring at me in church, and fidget when you see me.

 

He said he was simply acknowledging my presence, lies. If someone acknowledges simply doesn't stare at you every time you turn and see him looking and fidgeting and becoming giddy. At this time is when he said that he has feelings for one person and that isn't me. Could he have been fake with me during our relationship? He said how he was head over heels for me at one point but not for a long time. How could this be? When youre head over heels for someone you give them a chance after so much time. Saw him in church again today and just from the way he looks at me is more of like longing

Edited March 11, 2019 by janete5

[basil67]

You've posted this story under multiple names. Your posting history makes it appear that you have an inability to accept answers which you don't agree with. Perhaps it was this behaviour which caused many of the fights? If so, it makes sense that he'd move on. Nobody can reasonably be expected to stay with a partner who keeps rehashing old conversations in the hope of getting a different answer.