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A guy I was talking to on a dating site that messaged me, doctor, we had two exchanged spread out between 2 weeks. Hi how are you ? then i asked if he had any advice as I'd be applying to medical school soon he said sure asked about my stats which was on the 28 and he replied today saying sorry for the late reply. do you have whatsapp or something. I replied right away saying sure not sure whats wrong with the website and gave him my number. (the website is really having chat issues) that was at 8:30 in the morning and he hasn't messaged me and i noticed him on the site so not sure but i'm wondering if he saw my whatsapp pic and didn't like me?

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we had two exchanged spread out between 2 weeks. ... I replied right away ... that was at 8:30 in the morning and he hasn't messaged me

Hi janete5, if you have had two exchanges within a two week period, the average response time is one week. If you messaged him this morning, you should wait one week for him to reply.

 

With that said, your description indicates that you respond promptly, but he takes forever, and it's not because he isn't logging in. He does not seem very interested. If he saw your Whatsapp pic two weeks ago, then maybe it's related but maybe not (you can only speculate). If he saw it today, then it's not related at all, since the slow responses are not new behavior.

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He's busy with work AND dating other women. Knowing that later part, stop waiting for him. If he pops back up & chases you fine, but until then, assume you are not a priority.

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Hi janete5, if you have had two exchanges within a two week period, the average response time is one week. If you messaged him this morning, you should wait one week for him to reply.

 

With that said, your description indicates that you respond promptly, but he takes forever, and it's not because he isn't logging in. He does not seem very interested. If he saw your Whatsapp pic two weeks ago, then maybe it's related but maybe not (you can only speculate). If he saw it today, then it's not related at all, since the slow responses are not new behavior.

 

NO he asked for whatsapp yesterday and i gave it to him yesterday and thought since the website is the issue he would've messaged right away which is why i asked.

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You my dear are wasting your time. An interested man would have asked you out on a date by now. He's a doctor, he's probably looking for a career woman....and if he is checking out the dating site for college students, well he's not looking for anything serious.

 

 

 

Here's a tip: it would be wise to have flirty/out going conversations to entice a man to want to take you out, not ask advice on your schooling. Be a little zesty, warm it up a bit.

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You my dear are wasting your time. An interested man would have asked you out on a date by now. He's a doctor, he's probably looking for a career woman....and if he is checking out the dating site for college students, well he's not looking for anything serious.

 

 

 

Here's a tip: it would be wise to have flirty/out going conversations to entice a man to want to take you out, not ask advice on your schooling. Be a little zesty, warm it up a bit.

 

Did you not read the description? We've only had a few exchanges and he asked me for my whatsapp. And medical school is for "career women". He's from same area as me but says on sabbatical in Asia. he doesn't have any photos. I also don't have any photos on the website. But since he asked for my whatsapp yesterday, i had a photo i'm wondering if he saw it and didn't like it and this is why he hasn't texted..The website is having issues but even now it says he's online

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Did you not read my post....he's not an interested man.

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I actually thought he was not looking for a career woman, or at least not one in his field. Nurse or tech OK; future doctor not so much. It's that age old thing that some successful men don't want to have to compete in their romances. He may be one of those.

 

Having never met either of you, I'm only theorizing.

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the website is the issue

I don't think he's interested, but if we assume that he really is interested, but the web site is having issues, how do you know he even received your WhatsApp number? Don't you have six more days until he is able to open your message?

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I don't think he's interested, but if we assume that he really is interested, but the web site is having issues, how do you know he even received your WhatsApp number? Don't you have six more days until he is able to open your message?

 

You're saying he probably saw my photo and didn't find me attractive?

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Also you're asking him for advice to get into med school - kind of power differential there.

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You're saying he probably saw my photo and didn't find me attractive?

 

Shydad didn't suggest anything of the sort.

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