Author Loveisugly123 Posted March 9, 2019 Author Posted March 9, 2019 He was taking a shot at some models. I 100% agree 1
fred123 Posted March 10, 2019 Posted March 10, 2019 my two cents. i was in a similar position. girl i was seeing for 2 months invites me to her birthday party at a club. but tells me i cant hold her hand and dance with her and stand next to her as she had told herself in the summer she wanted to be single. it didnt end well eventually. m9ve on! also the people on here who say things like " its too early to expect an invite" well my question is what if he does invite the next girl that early? happened to me. just saying. girl disnt invite me to weddings she had been asked to attend for the 6 months we were dating. people on here had said it was too early to take someone as aplus one. well lo and behold she invited the new guy after me within 2 months lmao!!! 1
preraph Posted March 10, 2019 Posted March 10, 2019 In normal circumstances, ones where there weren't models involved, I'd be assuming the person had someone there, an ex or someone they keep hoping for. But it all amounts to the same thing.
crispytoast Posted March 10, 2019 Posted March 10, 2019 I'm pissed for you.. that sounds like a good time why wasn't I invited? I'm curious, how old is your boyfriend?
Author Loveisugly123 Posted March 10, 2019 Author Posted March 10, 2019 I'm pissed for you.. that sounds like a good time why wasn't I invited? I'm curious, how old is your boyfriend? 30 yrs old
LivingWaterPlease Posted March 10, 2019 Posted March 10, 2019 Yeah just because I can't help but think what if he's seeing someone else seriously and he doesnt want "us"( me and the other girl) to be around each other. But this is my theory I will never know. Its a lot of guessing and I just dont have a lot of energy to give to this issue. I know if I will ask he wont tell the truth so.. The bolded is more concerning to me than not being invited to the party. It would be reason enough to move on. 4
Versacehottie Posted March 10, 2019 Posted March 10, 2019 I agree with Living totally. I don't think it's about asking him. Grilling someone isn't the answer here. I think it's a fallacy to believe that just pretty women or models and their proximity to him is the worry. That is the kind of thinking that gets women blaming other women and acting jealous. If he is going to cheat, he will cheat (with anyone really; it would figure that getting with a model would be harder than other girls he could cheat with so there's that. I don't think the kind of models that do these type of shoots are very discerning though and guys do think they are hotter than more "real" working models even though they take average pics). The fact that he seems to need attention from other women or is still acting hot and bothered about proximity to pretty ones when he has a girlfriend and should be reasonably grown up and not sleazy is the concern. Who wants a bf like that? So it's been 2-3 months that you are a couple and you don't think he would tell you the truth? I wonder why. That speaks to his character, which is unlikely to change even 30 more years from now.
smackie9 Posted March 10, 2019 Posted March 10, 2019 If he was a kind considerate, fun loving person, he would have invited you and ask that you bring a friend or friends to enjoy this event, or invite you to come by after all the business crap was attended to. You are not strangers, you have known each other for a few years before you started dating, so it would make sense to invite you. IMO this guy is dating you for other reasons.
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